Yes it freezes brilliantly in ice cubes then you can defrost it easily. You can use proper milk but use wholemilk for them at this age, not skimmed or semi-skimmed. I usually use a pint of milk to make it and then freeze it. You can then have cauliflower cheese, cheese and veggies, fish in cheese sauce and cheesy pasta etc. I also made a batch of tomato sauce (recipe below) which I also made in bulk and use the same way. I then have some fish , mince and chicken which has been cooked and frozen and I do a mix and match with veggies and either baby rice, instant baby mash or pasta shapes chopped up. If you make a large portion and freeze it you really don't have to cook that often- probably only once a week although if we have broccoli I might save some for him etc.
Easy Tomato Sauce
I onion
Tin Toms (chopped)
No Salt stock cube (optional)
Herbs (optional)
Garlic (optional)
Skinned Peppers (optional)
Tom puree (optional)
Chop the onion finely and saute in some olive oil or unsalted butter until soft. Add any other ingredients you fancy and then the tin toms and stock cube. Reduce the heat and bubble away until it is nicely blended (10-30 mins).
Tomato can cause reactions so I'd test them first before making loads but it's a useful sauce for putting with everything.
For dinner/tea I made some veggie soup (just veggies boiled in no salt stock cube then roughly pureed leaving some small lumps) which is pretty easy, or he was cauliflower cheese, that kind of thing.
So a lunch might be-
Cottage Pie and Broccoli (cubes of mince cooked and frozen, instant baby mash and brocoli
Spag Bol (mince+ tom sauce + pasta shapes chopped)
Fish in Cheese Sauce with Mash and Brocolli (Fish grilled or put in oven in some foil with some butter and milk at about gas mark 6 for 20 mins then flaked, bones taken out and frozen)
Fishy Pasta (Fish + cheese sauce and or tom sauce + pasta + optional veggie cube)
Chicken Casserole + Rice (chicken casserole blended + cube of veggie soup or other veg + baby rice)
Cheesy Chicken Pasta (chicken + cheese sauce and or tom sauce + pasta + optional veg)
It might look like a lot of work but if you cook say two adult portions and then freeze then that will do you for a month if you see what I mean? I then choose what he's having the night before and defrost in the fridge in his pots- no problem! I've got several baby cookery books and all the recipes seem to be combinations of the same few foods if you see what I mean?
Hope that helps
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