Ov time and OH is ill :(

[positivity :)]

hi ladies,

hope you weekend is starting well. OH and I went to the cinema tonight and watched black swan, i would recommend, really good.

OH has been coming down with a cold all week and tonight its got really bad we bd'd last night but still haven't had my positive OPK. i think its due tomorrow, OH isn't up for bd'ing tonight and i feel like we are missing a good opportunity but its not gonna happen.

i feel really upset as he's out on saturday night so will be really hung over on sunday so i think we are out this month, he will wake up with a crappy cold tomorrow too so won't be up for it! i really am beginning to think this isnt meant to happen for me

every month there's been some sort of issue except last month and we done everything right and still no bfp! i just want to burst into tears

 

[SunnyGirl]

Aww honey
The key here (where you'll get what you want) is to be a bit sneaky. Make no mention of BD (cos when yer ill it seems like a massive chore) but instead massage him slowly and in a darkish room. You know where it's leading but he won't suspect that but he'll get all turned on et voila
Worth a shot

 

[positivity :)]

thanks sunny but i really think he isn't going to be 'up' for it at all! he's all miserable and feeling sorry for himself!

arrgghhh! i could just scream!

hope u are ok hunxx

 

[Nurse 26]

aww sorry positivity! why dont you see if you can seduce him anyway! totally know how you feel though as i had flu and fever over OV last month, it suks!!!!

 

[Bella2]

Oh hon I completely sympathise - BDing goes totally out the window if my OH feels unwell. We had a similar situation last month as Oh had his grandad's funeral and then this month the day before OV he felt unwell with acid reflux and I just wanted to scream. Did get a BD in the following day though (surge day) as I ended up telling him that I was oving. Does he know you're due to OV? If he knows how important it is to you then he might put the effort in - at least if you're upfront with him then you know you've done all you can. If it doesn't work out don't punish yourself - sometimes it's easier to let go and accept what will be will be - that frame of mind has helped me so much recently and I feel much more relaxed about TTC. Good luck honey don't loose sight as your BFP will come x x x

 

[positivity :)]

thanks girls,

yes bella he does know i'm ov over this weekend, he might put in some effort later, we shall see! xx

 

[SunnyGirl]

Bella that's great advice there - loved that post! You're very wise xxx

Positivity - I hope your OH gets his blummin knickers off!!

Xxxx

 

[Bella2]

thanks Sunny - I think you just live and learn - it's so easy to get stressed out with TTC sometimes you just need to take a little step back x x

Positivity - fingers crossed you a get a BD in later hon hope your OH is feeling better soon x x

 

[positivity :)]

I love u girls, ur the best!! Sunny u do make me laugh...knickers

Well me and OH had an argument earlier and I think he felt bad so he just came to say sorry and it ended in a BD and when it was over he said he'll prob be up for it again later

Xxxx

 

[Nurse 26]

YAY positivity, got to love some make-up BD

 

[SunnyGirl]

Lol milk it milk it milk it!!!!!

 

[positivity :)]

Ha!! Yeah guilt bd'ing xxx

 

[Mummy2Adam]

I agree with sunny, milk it and get some bd x x

 

[Bella2]

yay positivity! Glad you got a bd in!! x x x