OMG I'm having a friggin baby tomorrow!!!!

[Colleen1988]

I was just sat watching tele and it actually hit me... I'm having a baby tomorrow, or starting to have a baby tomorrow at least lol!

I'm so scared, I don't know how to be a mummy!

Ive never suffered with depression or anything but ive read alot about post natal depression and I worry that I might get it and not bond with my baby

I dreampt last night that I had my baby and I dropped it!! What the hell =\ I hope it's not a sign that I'm guna be a crap mum!!

Sorry for the rant im having a last minute panic I think!

I already love my baby so much and Im sure I won't even think like this once it's in my arms xxx

 

[WTT_june 2014]

Hi Hun, don't worry I'm sure this is all perfectly normal!
I think the chances of getting PND are pretty low if you've never suffered from depression before, so fingers crossed you'll be fine xx

 

[hayes]

How exciting hun, try not to worry I felt just the same before my induction last yr with Harry, it's so overwhelming that u will v a nun sion but trust me it will v fab. When I first held Harry I didn't get that amazing rush of live others talk of but I think there was just so much going in n I was so relieved he was here safe n all good. The feelings came later. So don't panic I'd it isn't instant. U will hq've lots of check ups n support so if u do feel something isn't right just speak up.

Good luck with it all u will b fibe n it really is all worth it.

Michelle.x

 

[Colleen1988]

Thanks girls.... Ive never felt so scared of anything in my life! It's mad xxx

 

[Bunny432]

This is so exciting babe!!!

I'm a FTM so don't have much experience but I know if I end up having an induction date and knowing when I'm having my little lady I'll feel the exact same, it's natural ! Our baby's mean so so much to us already were bound to have all these anxious feelings and the dreams are our hormones making it harder for us.

You'll be an amazing mummy, I have no doubt at all! xxxxx

 

[KHTW]

Worrying is a natural thing, we can't help it! It shows that you care You will be an amazing mum! Good luck for tomorrow x

 

[Colleen1988]

Aww thanks so much xxx

 

[Bexybun]

Oh my love, don't worry! I was exactly the same the first time round, and you know what, I still wonder if I can cope sometimes, but I'll be fine and so will you I promise You already love baby so much, you're going to be a brilliant mum.

 

[Colleen1988]

Because it's my first I just have no idea about anything... The thought that I have this little baby to look after for the rest of its life is so scary, I don't want to let it down xxx

 

[MysticTeen]

Aww Coleen you will do amazing! I worried so much that I would get fed up or regret my daughter as I was quite lazy before and not really a baby person. But now I'm so in love and enjoying every moment even the sleepless nights lol! When she was first born and they put her on me it was really weird I didn't bond I was so overwhelmed but that quickly passed and I started to bond with her and now she's my favourite little human good luck tomorrow!

 

[JJ Mum]

Coleen the others are spot on, you don't even need to worry about it, you created this little person, you've carried them for best part of a year, you will birth the baby in whatever way happens, yourll do all of that!
When they actually give you your baby , it's the single most best feeling ever, nothing like it!
You just are a mummy, no thinking involved. Listen to all advice and help along the way and then choose your own path, there is no right or wrong in being a mummy, your all they need.

Sorry feeling a bit gushy this morning! (Milks come in) Ha but its all true
Wishing you a lovely birth tomorrow ( or before!)

 

[Colleen1988]

Aww that makes me really excited, I hate the anticipation, I just want to meet my baby and get on with learning to be the best mummy I can be! I've not always been maternal but since becoming oregnant I have felt this feeling like I'm just so ready to be a mum now, it's strange! Im just scared of failure but sounds like it's a normal feeling to have! Fear of the unknown I guess xxx

 

[Bunny432]

I love what JJ has said! It's natural to have fears , I have so many but your going to do the best you can right? That's enough for anyone and your baby and you will have the best bond forever. Your going to be amazing xxxx

 

[first_time_mum]

I cannot believe you are having your baby tomorrow, I can remember when you got your bfp! Once baby Comes you will know what to do hun, it just come naturally to you. It's totally normal to have fears and worry but once you hold them in your arms you will just know, will be stalking for updates tomorrow xx

 

[Colleen1988]

Ahhh I was thinking about you today... I know I can't believe the time has come, what a journey!!! I hope your doing well sweet and baby simpson is cooking nicely

Thanks bunny xxx

 

[purplecandy]

Exciting! Good luck and keep us updated if you can x

 

[becky85]

Ha ha I know exactly how you feel! I go through waves of being really excited and then nervous and then excited again and then I just find it funny because it still feels so surreal! Guess until it happens and baby is here it won't feel real but we'll figure it out - everyone else manages to. Also I have had some absolutely mental dreams involving me leaving the baby in a bin, taking it into work and leaving it and having to ring round the shops and ask if anyone has handed a baby in - I assume these are normal anxieties good luck Colleen x

 

[Colleen1988]

Haha yes I think it's totally normal, ive been like it since the day I got my BFP! sometimes I feel ready and some times I panic and think crap what I have done!! But it's just one of them things you will take to naturally hopefully! We will find out soon xxx

 

[first_time_mum]

Ahhh I was thinking about you today... I know I can't believe the time has come, what a journey!!! I hope your doing well sweet and baby simpson is cooking nicely

Thanks bunny xxx

Yeah I'm good thank you hun baby is all well, went for a 4d scan Saturday but he was being a monkey so got to go back Friday, pain in the bum like his dad already haha.

Can't wait to see If your having a boy or a girl and to see the gorgeous pictires, hopefully it will be nice and quick for you tomorrow xx

 

[Bubbles22]

Colleen that is so wierd. I had a similar dream last nite. Baby came. I dropped it. I didn't feel an instant bond and then in my dream a couple of weeks later baby smiled at me and I felt that rush of love (obviously all in my dream). I think it's only natural we are nervous. This is the biggest change in our life and the most responsibility we will ever have but I keep telling myself that I am already so protective of my bump, imagine what I will be like when it's a 'real' baby! Put your feet up today and treat yourself. Give oh massive cuddles later and look forward to meeting your baby xx