ok.. so heres my story

[lisa&alex]

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[Nic'n'Keeley]

Awww hun

Its not stupid... its prefectly nautral to feel like this after being so let down in the past...

but for someone who is willing to take on someone else's baby now thats True love there's not many people that would take on a child...

I have these fears as Keeley's dad left me for another girl when Keeley was 3months old... i can honestly say i have no trust in men and don't think i ever will

But Alex sounds great... I'm sure you wil be together forever you sound made for each other and he sounds like a great bloke
(does he have any single brothers )

 

[sophie-jordan]

awwwww hun av some of these
as Nic said its perfectly natural 2 feel like that. u have been let down and hurt in the past by charlottes dad and now your pregnant again u feel like it could happen
u have just got 2 think positive hun cause Alex sounds like he really does care and love you and charlotte
all the best
x sophie x

 

[lisa&alex]

i know.. pregnancy hormones do funy things to you dont they..i just have to keep telling myself that i am secure.. i am secure lol.!! xx thansk for the hugs

 

[kitty86]

Awwww hun

Blame them big nasty hormones. I am in the same situation really I have been let down by men all the time and now Im with mark I tihink he will leave infact the poor bloke is fed up of having to say he wont.

He can have bad days at work and he comes home in a mood and I think its me I know I have done nothing wrong but for some mad reason I think all his sadness is down to me and he is going to leave me for someone better.

Since I got pregnant I feel so insecure to a point I cant go bed alone because I think he might leave while im asleep and when he goes pub Im constantly thinking what if he meets someone better.

I really hope things get better hun. For thr both of us

 

[Sabrina]

When you've been let down badly in the past I think it's entirely normal to wonder if it will happen again. I've been there many times and know how it can make you feel paranoid and totally insecure. I gave my OH hell in the first year we were together. I constantly thought he'd leave me or cheat on me.

I think it was because my past relationship "baggage" was stopping me from enjoying the new relationship and I was holding back coz I was scared of being hurt again.

There'll come a time when you have to let go of the past and trust in the present. This is a different person you are with (and you have to try to believe him when he tells you he loves you / won't leave you etc).

Enjoy each day as it comes. Feel strong knowing you survived your past relationship problems and they made you stronger. Whatever happens in this relationship try not to pre-judge it on the past.

 

[trixipaws]

he sounds like a fab guy, and really understanding. does he kno abt ur past why u hav good reason 2 b paranoid? its perfectly understandable, especially in ur circumstances. not all men are shits, as u've found with alex. try not 2 worry

 

[*saulino*]

Hi

Aww hun i think anyone would feel this way after your past relationships.
Alex sounds like a great guy , just enjoy what you have together and be happily married!!

Katrina

 

[mrs_tommo22]

Hunni he sounds like a wonderful man and you cant blame yourself for feeling the way you do when you have been badly burned before!

I guess all you can do is just have a chat with him about how you feel and a good cry alwasy sorts the hormones out - bloody things!

Enjoy your new pregnancy and the fact you have a great sounding fella that appeasr to love you all very nuch.