OH worrying me now, still no AF

[toolost101]

what should i do, im 9/10 days late, and my OH just says, dont worry your not preg, your not preg, and last night straight out of the blue, he says, "im too selfish to have kids, we wouldnt be able to do what we want" but hes the most generous giving person i know,

and over the past few months ive noticed if a wedding programme is on tv, he says, im never getting married again, and it cuts me up inside,

and still no AF, so what do i do if iam pregnant, its not like i want to get married straight away, but i want to know that our relationship is going somewhere,

ive tried talking to him, but he instantly tries to get out of it, what am i to do now, im panicking, and i thought he wanted kids, and starts saying things like this,

OMG i didnt get a wink of sleep last night, and today hes acting like nothing has happened.

 

[oldermum]

Sweetheart, he sounds like a normal man to me

I'd wait to see if AF visits or you do a test and you get a BFP , then you need to talk together.

As for marriage i to wouldn't get married as at the end of the day it really makes no difference to you relationship with your partner, it'll be good or bad with or without marriage, if he loves you and is kind that counts for everything.

Take a test and start from there.

Good luck

 

[Emma22]

sounds like he is being a normal man hun. he might be anxious coz you havent got your af yet, if you do get your bfp its gonna be a big thing for both of you and you know what men are like with these kind of things. as oldermum said, wait and see if af shows its ugly head and take things from there. sorry your feeling so worried

 

[Penstraze]

When I thought I was pregnant last month my OH said if I was he expected I would have an abortion I was cut up about this for days but when I finally spoke to him and said look theres no way Id want an abortion I cant believe you thought I would or would want me too, he said it just seemed so likely I was pregnant and he'd gotten scared but although he didnt think the timing was right he wouldnt be gutted if I was pregnant and we would be ok, after that he kept putting his hand on my tummy and I think he was even alittle disapointed when I wasnt pregnant, men are just funny creatures and get scared easily!!!!

As for marrage, my OH was adament he was never going to get married, this has gone to he would marry me in a second if he had the money, you never know one day it may become will you marry me so theres hope yet!!!