OH telling you to loose weight..

[redbear]

... from this mornings discussion if my husband told me to loose weight he would get a kick in the shaft. That is all.

 

[LoopyLouize]

I didnt see it but I have actually told my OH that if I do go fat, can he inform me so I can do something about it lol! Don't think he ever would though as I would probably still sulk over it ha!


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[redbear]

the thing i know myself its not like im here thinking im thin in my size 20 pants!

 

[Titch85]

My OH (and my family too) quite often refer to my weight! I am size 14.

 

[Lou12]

If my OH told me to lose weight, I'd inform him that if he mentioned it again he'd be loosing a right bollock!!! haha xxx

 

[redbear]

A size 14 thats skinny! Well it is to me anyway, i have always been big and if he mentioned it in a negative way i think it would hurt me more than anything because it would be like he lied all this time ifykwim? I would also be mad, and would kick him in the plumbs! x

 

[Jellybeanjen]

I watched this and I kinda see what he means (ish). But the again...NEVER TELL A GIRL TO LOSE WEIGHT! It is all in their best interests really lol. Girls may pat their OHs bellys or comment on moobs which may hurt the men but theyw on't show it. Say it to a girl and she will not be happy and I think men should just lie and say 'yes dear, no dear' just to make their world a much better place really lol.

My OH learnt his lesson when he said I had pregnancy increased back fat!!! He has never said a bad word since lol.

 

[knopk@]

I have to admit we talk about weight and the need to lose it but its for both of us.
I just dont feel comfortable in size 12, i have never been super skinny but i want to go back to size 10. DH has also gained some weight which he wants to lose.
However if he told me i was fat, he would be losing weight very quickly by losing parts of his body
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[LikeJohnnYoko]

My Husband would never, ever presume to tell me to do anything for starters! I know I need to lose weight, it's painfully obvious to everyone around me that I need to lose weight but it's also understood (esp. by my Husband) that with my health problems it isn't that easy.

We talk about it openly, how I feel about it etc (he has had weight issues in the past which helps I guess as he knows how I feel).

If anyone presumed to tell me to lose weight, I would, by cutting them out of my life I don't need telling, I have eyes.

 

[Titch85]

When ever I eat, I can feel eyes on me, or I get tutted at, so I quite often feel guilty for eating crisps or chocolate. I regularly tell him how shit it feels but he just doesn't see it. My mum and dad are just as bad, I think it's because they are unhappy with their own weight. I quite often get asked if "I really need that" when I am eating or I get asked if I want to join them on their diet. My mum has been known to say "if you're going to wear that just watch your tummy"

It does hurt, and it does bother me, but unfortunately I like food I've tried diets and I've joined the gym, but unfortunately it hasn't made a difference yet.

 

[redbear]

Haha i know what i would do if anyone tried to stop me eating my food! Im a big person but i like the way i look, im comfortable in my body, sometimes ill have a wobble and think im deluded and need to loose weight but i soon forget, i talk with my oh about wanting to get healthy but thats the difference with him if he spoke at me about it i would get pissed off!

 

[Squeakz]

Id expect my oh to tell me if I was getting to fat. And I have told him the same. Not in a nastt way and I was still atracted to him etc etc but I expecr that sort of honesty from him. And the main reason being that I want to know that im a healthy size and probably for vanity reaaons that I look nice for him and others. This isnt intended if I go up a dress size as when we met I was a 6 to 8 and am now a 14 and hes never said anything buy more so if I looked out of proportion. In fact I would expect him to tell me so. I would expect my best friends to twll me so wjy not my greatesr friend.....same the other way round. I think theres a right and a wrong way of discussing it. Eg if I was a 12 and he ttold be I was fatthen yeah bugger off you waste of space but not at a size rhat made me unhealthy and look disproportionate wjich for my height and structure would be an 18 onwards etc.....anyway off my soapbox.....

 

[Kaala]

I would thank him for finally being honest to me but I WILL tell him that he has to do the same He's been eaten for me and baby since I'm pregnant x