no time..

[klam]

well thats my wee joshua 2 weeks now but with a 4 year old and big houuse to keep iv not had a minute and missed a lot! mainly my friends birthday nites out or their kids parties and i think iv driven them away espescially 1 of them as she came to visit and i was out! i feel really bad thats iv not seen much of them all but with a rubbish pregnany then trying to get into a routine iv not had much of a chance. i dont understand why they cant understand this! maybe becos they all have kids aswell they must think im making excuses which tbh sometimes i do as im shattered and cant be bothered going anywahere or seein anyone.
just wanted a little rant, i know if i dont see them much now itll be my own fault and i suppose i feel bad for ditching them these past few weeks x

 

[Lacey's Mummy]

They must understand that your be tierd though! You've just had a baby so take your time! I'm not planning on going out for ages after I have little man cos like you I want to get him into a routine and if anyone wants to see me then they can come to me!! You and LO are number 1 ATM x x

 

[titch]

Hun, thats totally understandable You could arrange a bbq for the end august bank holiday weekend or something. That's plenty of time away and you can send out invites now. Then youre friends will know that you do want to see them and socialise, and they wont feel like youre just gonna drift apart. We're planning something like that so that people can all visit in one go instead of one visitor a day for months on end!!

 

[klam]

do u know thats a fabulous idea!!! gives me time 2 save up 4 all their birthday pressies that i missed! lol
its good 2 have people that understand xxx