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[floridagirl]

Hi everyone!!!
just wanted to say hello and to wish you all good luck on TTC.
I have 2 children already (but that does not stop the desparate want for another) we had been trying for what seemed like forever before I fell pregnant earlier this year, we was over the moon and so excited. I had a cople of early scans (because I am pariniod) and they showed that everything was normal and a healthy pregnancy so when I had my 12 week scan and they told us that the baby had died at around 11 weeks we was in total shock and totally devastated!!! what happened next was horiffic so wont go into detail.
That was 4 weeks and 4 days ago and I am still waiting for my period so I know things are back to normal and we can start trying agian!!!! (no way I can be pregnant now as been emtional to have sex)
My husband really really wanted another baby but now he is unsure
This has really upset me as I really want another, he says that he is scared the same thing will happen and does not want to see me go through all that again (it was bad and I did not handle it very well) but I know he will be happy if we have a healthy full term pregnancy.
xxx

 

[Mamafy]

I am so sorry hun

 

[floridagirl]

thanks xxx the doctors at the hospital said that I had given birth to two healthy babies so there is no medical reason that I can not have another, they said that it was just bad luck and natures way of saying something was wrong and to happen again would be extrmly unlucky so fingers crossed!!!!

 

[charliesmissing]

Aww babe. I'm so sorry for your loss, Hope things will go better for you this time round.

 

[PinkPunch]

sorry to hear what you went through. Your doctor is right though, it probably won't happen again but I'm sure it's scarey. Maybe your hubby needs more time to get over it? X