Nearly ended all but didnt

[natashateale]

My relationship with my OH nearly ended last night, big arguement, tears, shouting the lot. If i could drive i would of walked out and i dont think i would of come back.I dont know if i can forgive him. We went out to the cineme and something to eat and we seemed ok out but at the back of my mind it was still all there.
To add matters we wer ttc and now i dont think we should. Well i know we shouldnt but he wants to. I dont think i can for now, its goin to take a while for me to trust him.
I think we should just stop and work on things that tbh prob could be sorted quite quickly but we have our DD to think about and not let her know something is wrong so i dont want to ttc for the time being.

 

[kirstymichelle]

Awww ((((hugs)))),

Can you talk to him about the ttc? about feeling like you dont want to??

x x x x

 

[MrsHakaxjdx]

i would have a good talk, i argued with my husband about how to warm up shredded wheat the other morning. That turned into a full day of where getting divorced. he turned his phone off all day, which made me feel worse because i am about to pop.
but i spoke to his mum and she agreeded with me ( which makes a big change) and he come home at 10pm at night with puppy dog eyes.
men there strange creatures x x

 

[natashateale]

I know what u mean, When me and OH were argueing i was so angry and so was he and then the next min he was all sweet and was asking me how he could make it to me.
We have spoke about it but i think i need to calm down before we talk more about it

 

[kirstymichelle]

glad you'll be able to sort it x

 

[natashateale]

So over the weekend me and OH spoke loads and made some changes.
i said to him last night that i think we should put it on hold for abit but he said that that was fine if thats what i wanted, but thinks we should st down and talk about it properly when our little miss went to bed tonight.
I dont want to go back on the pill but just keep track of my cycle and not around my most fertile time so there is always a chance i could get preg which i really realy want but i just think it would take alot of stress out if i wasnt waiting for OV and having to on those days. It will happen when it happens
So hopefully we can enjoy it all abit more now. I havent completey forgiven what he did but he is sorry and has proved it over the weekend and he knows that i would of walked and if it happens again i will go.
For now every thing is ok

 

[Geminiblue]

not sure whatthe situation was that youve had to forgive him for but you sound like youre on top of things hun xxx

 

[kirstymichelle]

Glad you talked and you sound very sensible x x x

 

[natashateale]

We need to sort out our problems before we bring another baby into our family. A baby can put alot more preasure on a relationship lol plus we already have a 3year old. I am very proud that our little is oblivious to everything that has gone on this weekend. We have kept our problems to our selves until she has gone to bed and we knew she was asleep. We didnt scream and shout (although i could of at time lol) we actually talked and tbh it gets u alot further than shouting
Just goin to take it one day at a time now

 

[stacey_lea86]

Glad you sorted things out & talked things through x