Nasty know it all people

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  1. katie_lou

    katie_lou Well-Known Member

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    Hi all ,

    Just had to post this as am so angry and upset. My daughter is 3 weeks old and we took her to visit my OH family as they live in Norwich. Me and my OH live in Liverpool. We got the train down to see them which is a 5 hour journey.

    Ruby was as good as gold except for the last 30 mins as the train was really hot plus she has been constipated. She began crying and this lasted for about 15 mins and some man sitting facing us decided to shout at the top of his voice how there was something wrong with my baby and it was disgusting how we were letting her be in pain and we should do something .

    I just burst in to tears I was trying everything to comfort her and for some one to stand up on a busy train and make out like ur a bad parent and that you would willing let ur child suffer is heartbreaking.

    As soon as he said it my partner got up and began arguing with him, he then got up and went to the next carriage.

    I still cant believe it .... How dare he say there's something wrong with ruby she is perfect and babies cry. I was in tears all last night as he made me feel like n awful mum

    Xxx
     
  2. Rachaellius

    Rachaellius Well-Known Member

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    Aww please try and ignore him hun, what an ignorant idiotic man. As you say you were trying your best to comfort her thats all you can do. Grr people are so quick to judge parents, he's an idiot don't let this small minded prat upset you :hugs: xx
     
  3. Jayceesmumma

    Jayceesmumma Well-Known Member

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    Oh my god that is disgusting! What a vile human being!!! Ur in no way a bad mum just ignore the prick wanting attention on the train!! Glad ur OH put him in his place!!!
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  4. pinkyprincess

    pinkyprincess Well-Known Member

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    I think my OH would've hit him! How dare he! Bet he has no kids!

    Wow go you for doing that train journey! Tyler's 6 weeks and I wouldn't feel confident! Talk about super mum!


     
  5. katie_lou

    katie_lou Well-Known Member

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    Thanks girls ..... I think if I ever see that man again i will give him a smack I the face lol xxx
     
  6. lewisca

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    Some people r so vile !!!! Good on your oh for putting him in his place ! U r by no means a bad mum ! Dont let it get to u Hun u know your baby best and u were comforting her xxx


     
  7. ChrissieCool

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    People make me sick these days and they are getting worse!
     
  8. LoopyLouize

    LoopyLouize Well-Known Member

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    Oh my, what a horrible nasty man he was. Ignore him chick, he isn;t worth your tears!
     
  9. smokey08

    smokey08 Well-Known Member

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    What an asshole! I don't think he'd be walking if my OH was there.
    How dare he pass judgement like that...
    Ignore people like him hun, there will always be somone with somthing to say...bet he has no babies at home. :hugs: Xxxxx
     
  10. Pickledonions

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    Good job I wasn't on the train if he'd heard josh he'd phone social services the way he screams when he suddenly decides he's hungry lol

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  11. Maria1977

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    Just ignore people like that hun, so not worth getting upset over, they should be embarrassed by their behaviour. We've had a few comments in the past but I just glare at them and dare them to come and talk to me to my face lol

    xxxx
     
  12. katie_lou

    katie_lou Well-Known Member

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    Thanks girls feel loads better today ... Am not gonna let it upset me anymore as I know am a good mum. Xxx
     
  13. Jayceesmumma

    Jayceesmumma Well-Known Member

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    Glad to hear it babe!!
     
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    Olive Well-Known Member

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    :hug: what an arsehole. xx
     
  15. LaurenMM

    LaurenMM Well-Known Member

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    How f-ing digusting is that! He had absolutely no right to humiliate you and say something so bloody hurtful and downright wrong! Seriously, how did u not get up and twat him? :( hope ur ok now hun. Honestly he doesnt know what hes talking about! xx.
     
  16. Amanda W

    Amanda W Well-Known Member

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    oh my god that must have been so horrid if that was me i would have propely bollocked him back.People like that just ingorne them they are not worth it hun xxx its your child not his
     
  17. katie_lou

    katie_lou Well-Known Member

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    I was that shocked to be honest it's I good job my OH was there as he soon put him in his place... I am ok now am not gonna let people like that upset me. Baby's cry and if he don't like it he should of moved xxx
     
  18. LaurenMM

    LaurenMM Well-Known Member

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    Exactly hun I'd have just said that to him, if you dont like it, move elsewhere, noone else is complaining! Hell, we were all children once and apparently some adults think its appropriate to act like one! Glad youre ok now hun!!!! xxx
     

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