my mum and dad

[Sarah&Braydon]

As u all know me and my mum and dad dont always get along but today they really surprised me!
my sis was tlking to them about going away with friends etc and would she be allowed to go abroad etc and i turned round n sed wish i could go away but cant. they sed y i sed 1 i cant afford it 2 i cant take B as i need Garrys permission to take me out the country
they sed ohrite well if u wann ago away well have B for the week
i mean dont get me wrong NO WAY would i leave my baby i refuse to even for the nite
but the fact they offered was loverly ment loads to me
and after all the fite recently made me realise most of the time we do realli get along ne way just thought id share

 

[cassi]

i dont understand why would you need to ask garry? isnt it you that has full custody of him? And thats lovely of them

 

[Sarah&Braydon]

garry has parental rights as he is on the birth certificate

 

[cassi]

But surely he cant have a say wether you take b away or not? Is that how it works? thats terrible!!!

 

[budge]

yes cassi. Fathers who have paretnal rights get to say which school their children go to , whether they can leave the country, have vacinations etc.

 

[cassi]

even idiots like garry that dont even bother? sorry sarah im assuming you still hate him?

 

[Sarah&Braydon]

ohh hun its an understatement
i told my mum n dad it was a bad idea he was on the birth cretifcate but they didnt think it would be good for B so he is and now i have all these problem

 

[cassi]

cant you get him taken off? my dads name was on the b certificate cause they split up after but she never had to get his permission for anything???

 

[Sarah&Braydon]

well u can only get in trouble I THINK if the dad 'dobs' u in which garry would do with pleasure

 

[Strangeness]

If Garry found out Sarah was taking B out of the country he could have her stopped from doing so. He could phone the police and say Sarah didn't have permission to take him out of the country and they could stop her. It's crap really.

 

[Tara & Liam]

thats really horrible Sarah, what happens in the future and youre with a new partner and other children (it will happen), he can stop you taking B on holiday. i think this is something that you are going to have to look into. surely just because his name is on the birth certificate and he has nothing to do with the welfare of B it doesnt warrant him the option of his welfare.

 

[Lyn_no3]

i think from how i understood it with my solicitor that you dont have to have actual permission, because they have to have a good reason to be stopping you? same as with schools they have to have good reasons to try to change your choice... not sure if thats right, bloody hope cos ive signed parental rights forms for my ex now lol

 

[cassi]

yeah thats why i was confused my dad had no rights over us, my mom didnt have to ask permission for anything..and he was on the BC cause he left when i was 4, and just left and never saw us again...

 

[Tara & Liam]

parental rights changed from january 2003 so that unmarried fathers had the same rights without the mothers giving parental consent.

 

[BubbleB]

aww thats so nice

about garry deciding if u can take him out the country

glad danny dont know bout that rule lmao

 

[Keely]

arrr sarah, i can understand why u find it hard to go a week without b but why not the night it would be good for you, but then again u dont drink do u so it might be pointless.

would garry really stop u then? does he still see b?

xxxx

 

[Sarah&Braydon]

yes keely he would do he is the biggest male bitch going so if i found out would tell straight away
and he aint seen B since may 7th