My husband is a workaholic - cant handle it

[Eveadel]

I think Ive moaned about this before BUT it is so peeing me off.

My husband is obsessed by work, he has always been a good worker but just before Isabella came along he started working alot harder. He takes so much pride in his work. He never seems to switch off. He has started his own business 3 weeks ago and it is going really well but he has become so boring over the last year, he has sort of lost the art of conversation.

I would hate to be with someone who was unemployed and lazy but my husband is the complete opposite. For example yesterday, he left for work at 6am got home at 11.45pm, today he has been home with Isabella (supposed to be having quality time) but has been working, has just gone off to work now and will be back at about 12 midnight and then out again tomorrow morning at 6am.

I know he is not up to something as I see the money coming in but I just cant understand this obsession he has


ARRRGGGHHHHHHH

I seriously think we are going in different directions and drifting apart ???

All I seem to do is moan

 

[cloud9]

I have read somewhere about men feeling the need and extra pressure to provide for their family once they have children. can you sit down with him and talk about how you are feeling?

 

[Eveadel]

Well the s***t hit the fan on Saturday and we had a massive row and it ended up with him telling me to move out. We have sorted things out now and he sort of understands where Im coming from.

 

[sam96031]

i hope you sort things soon, it is really hard isnt it, my DH is always working and it causes arguments, goo dluck

 

[budge]

I think Ive moaned about this before BUT it is so peeing me off.

My husband is obsessed by work, he has always been a good worker but just before Isabella came along he started working alot harder. He takes so much pride in his work. He never seems to switch off. He has started his own business 3 weeks ago and it is going really well but he has become so boring over the last year, he has sort of lost the art of conversation.

I would hate to be with someone who was unemployed and lazy but my husband is the complete opposite. For example yesterday, he left for work at 6am got home at 11.45pm, today he has been home with Isabella (supposed to be having quality time) but has been working, has just gone off to work now and will be back at about 12 midnight and then out again tomorrow morning at 6am.

I know he is not up to something as I see the money coming in but I just cant understand this obsession he has


ARRRGGGHHHHHHH

I seriously think we are going in different directions and drifting apart ???

All I seem to do is moan

its not that you are going off in diferent directions its that you just don't have a relationship. something has to give you need time as a couple too.
talk to him and tell him what you've told us. Cry too - thats always good. Men hate female hysteria