My concerns.......

[faithangle]

Hi ladies,

I rarely do a thread so here I go. My mum and oh are both gong to be with me at the birth. Well that's the plan as I always have my mum there because when I'm in pain she is all I ever want. Due to my grandads stroke she has to keep travelling about and 1 half to 2 hour journey by tube and bus to get there and stay over until the morning once a week. So today is is gone I'm so scared I will go into labour without, I think I would panic just knowing she might not make it as my other two were fast labours. I can get through without my oh but not her.


I haven't got any real signs at present, No different from the last few. Being painful contractions throughout the mornings then they stop by afternoon. Due for my sweep on Thursday. My oh keeps really up setting me saying he doesn't want the baby to come yet and he even went far away off the weekend right on my due dates. It hurt so much I cried and my mum wasn't too pleased either. I feel like I'm going to end up on my own with three children but what hurts is this little baby was planned. Life sucks sometimes and it's amazing what can go wrong and change in nine months.


Right that's my rant, and tears done now, if I do another thread I hope it's a labour one if I can manage it at the time.

 

[deedee84]

what an arse your OH was but dont worry yourself too much hun, i'm sure things will work out as planned and your mum will be right by your side when it happens i'm also having my mum with me, shes on holiday end of may for 2 weeks so i'm also hoping babs doesnt decide to be like her big sister and arrive early!

xx

 

[Lolly85x]

Sorry to hear about your situation. Sounds like you have a great relationship with your mum, and you could maybe talk to her and tell her how you feel, she could skip a couple of weeks visiting your grampa untill the baby is here. Being pregnant really put a strain on any relationship, so maybe when baby is here you can sort things out with your oh, chin up and don't feel to down xxx

 

[faithangle]

Thanks for the support, sometimes it's just better out than in.

 

[kanga86]

Sorry to hear ur oh is being a bit of an arse! hopefully once bubs is here he will buck up his ideas and help u out with ur other children too. As for ur mum could she not skip her visits just for this week? It's not like u have long that the will just leave u for now being over a week overdue already. Most people I know that are pregnant at the mo are going into labour the day before their inductions/ sweeps at 10 days overdue, I wonder if there is a pattern to these baby's arrivals

Hope baby arrives soon and ur mum is able to be there xxx

 

[BellaRiven]

Huge Hugs hun, your OH is being a right knob isn't he, think he needs to buck his ideas up..

I hope everything works out for you, I can't imagine Having my mum in the room lol, she would drive me bonkers as much as I love her she is very you don;t want to do it like that you want to do it like this....

xxxx

 

[faithangle]

Thanks ladies only time will tell if labour is following a pattern this month. My mum would stay if I ask her but I know my grandad really needs her too. As for my oh I'm just waiting for Lo to arrive a see what happens from there!! These Aprils are real shy grrr!!

 

[Pinktink23]

hey sweetie....
im not going to sit here and slag off your OH... as i too have an OH who isnt perfect... he has done alot of things that have made me wonder if he will even be around before my son is born... as horrible as that sounds to some ladies who have the best OH who support them i know what it also feels like to have the OH one min be over the moon next flip out... I hope to go he sorts himself out... as i can only tell you what ive been telling myself... this whole 9months you have been alone and battled your fears, you have been emotional but pulled through.. you will still do that if he carrys on being a kid himself... deep down i think hes scared, silly really i know and im not sticking up for him just seeing it how i have been seeing it with my OH.

Im sure your mum will be there for you when you give birth... i think she would run to the ends of the earth to get there on time... i dont think you need to worry about that one!! Dont waste any more tears on the silly things... think not long and your hormones will be normal again and you will have that bundle of joy in your arms you wont care about the silly things... If you need a chat or someone to hold your hand... i can do it virtually.... xxx thinking of you sweetie xxx

 

[SarahCarps2be]

hey sweetie....
im not going to sit here and slag off your OH... as i too have an OH who isnt perfect... he has done alot of things that have made me wonder if he will even be around before my son is born... as horrible as that sounds to some ladies who have the best OH who support them i know what it also feels like to have the OH one min be over the moon next flip out... I hope to go he sorts himself out... as i can only tell you what ive been telling myself... this whole 9months you have been alone and battled your fears, you have been emotional but pulled through.. you will still do that if he carrys on being a kid himself... deep down i think hes scared, silly really i know and im not sticking up for him just seeing it how i have been seeing it with my OH.

Im sure your mum will be there for you when you give birth... i think she would run to the ends of the earth to get there on time... i dont think you need to worry about that one!! Dont waste any more tears on the silly things... think not long and your hormones will be normal again and you will have that bundle of joy in your arms you wont care about the silly things... If you need a chat or someone to hold your hand... i can do it virtually.... xxx thinking of you sweetie xxx

Practise what you preach mrs! xx

 

[Pinktink23]

hey sweetie....
im not going to sit here and slag off your OH... as i too have an OH who isnt perfect... he has done alot of things that have made me wonder if he will even be around before my son is born... as horrible as that sounds to some ladies who have the best OH who support them i know what it also feels like to have the OH one min be over the moon next flip out... I hope to go he sorts himself out... as i can only tell you what ive been telling myself... this whole 9months you have been alone and battled your fears, you have been emotional but pulled through.. you will still do that if he carrys on being a kid himself... deep down i think hes scared, silly really i know and im not sticking up for him just seeing it how i have been seeing it with my OH.

Im sure your mum will be there for you when you give birth... i think she would run to the ends of the earth to get there on time... i dont think you need to worry about that one!! Dont waste any more tears on the silly things... think not long and your hormones will be normal again and you will have that bundle of joy in your arms you wont care about the silly things... If you need a chat or someone to hold your hand... i can do it virtually.... xxx thinking of you sweetie xxx

Practise what you preach mrs! xx

Lol missy... i dont even have a come back for that haha... aye i know i need to man up and do the same... im a chicken haha... If you werent so far id poke you LY Really *whispers to squidge kick mummy 4 me* xx

 

[faithangle]

Thanks for those words of advice, I'm probably a lot like that myself. That is able to give great advice but find it hard to help myself. But your both right my hormones don't help and I know mum would move heaven and earth to be by my side she always does. Xx