MummyMills
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Hi all,
I had my 20 week scan yesterday & was told that I had a low lying placenta, where it's close to/covering slightly the opening of the cervix. I have to go back at 36 weeks for a scan to see if it's moved, but if not I'll be booked in for a C-section at 39 weeks.
I've read up about this since & I know only a small % of women end up having a C-section but I'm really worried. I've spent the last 4 months preparing myself for labour & giving birth, only to be told now that I might not get to experience it as they just cut me open & whip it out. I'm worried that as I haven't gone through labour, I won't go through the emotions associated or be able to bond with my baby. Also, I live in a first floor flat & having a C-section means I'm going to be pretty much house-bound for about 6 weeks which will probably depress me even more.
I just think having to wait until 36 weeks is a long time without knowing, and it only gives me a few weeks to prepare myself psychologically for the birth. Do you think I should ask for the scan to be earlier? Is this possible?
Am I being irrational? Has anyone else experienced this?
Sorry to go on but I am really worried about this.
I had my 20 week scan yesterday & was told that I had a low lying placenta, where it's close to/covering slightly the opening of the cervix. I have to go back at 36 weeks for a scan to see if it's moved, but if not I'll be booked in for a C-section at 39 weeks.
I've read up about this since & I know only a small % of women end up having a C-section but I'm really worried. I've spent the last 4 months preparing myself for labour & giving birth, only to be told now that I might not get to experience it as they just cut me open & whip it out. I'm worried that as I haven't gone through labour, I won't go through the emotions associated or be able to bond with my baby. Also, I live in a first floor flat & having a C-section means I'm going to be pretty much house-bound for about 6 weeks which will probably depress me even more.
I just think having to wait until 36 weeks is a long time without knowing, and it only gives me a few weeks to prepare myself psychologically for the birth. Do you think I should ask for the scan to be earlier? Is this possible?
Am I being irrational? Has anyone else experienced this?
Sorry to go on but I am really worried about this.