Lets make "TTC sex" amazing! Post your ideas here...

[andreaaa]

Well it seems most of us have had our OH say that they can't BD when the pressure is on as we're OVing, or even that now we're TTC all the excitement is gone... so lets do something about it

Last night my DH knew that it was our last chance at catching the eggy for this month and he said he felt completely under pressure and even though we could have sex he convinced himself that he wouldn't be able to deposit his little guys at the end of it.

So I got out my "Ann Summers Guide to Wild Sex and Loving" and we read through the 1st chapter together which was all about kissing. Do you remember when we first met out OH's it was all about snogging and we all did lots of it? Well most of us in a long term relationship tend to neglect this, which can be one of the most erotic things ever!

So we agreed to just kiss and nothing else, and OMG I cant remember the last time it felt like that! In fact it was so amazing that we couldnt help but BD and now were in with a great chance that we caught the eggy this month

Some tips we learnt:

* Agree with your OH to kiss passionately for 5mins minimum every single day, even when there is no BD involved.
* Light, teasing kisses can be the best
* Take your OH's bottom lip in your mouth and suck... imitates a BJ and they love it!
* Try kissing, licking and sucking your OH's earlobe, if he enjoys this then dart your tongue into his ear and be as noisy about it as you like. If he doesn't seem to enjoy it move down to his neck and kiss along his hairline at the back of his neck

Cant remember anymore at the minute but believe me girls this works and is so much fun! Post your tips and ideas here

 

[Jade89]

My Oh gets turned on by tickling the back of his neck and having lovebites but they are gross so i just suck enough not to leave a mark.

I am having some ann summers stuff delivered Thursday...The leopard corset thingy wanted that for ageees and the gangster girl outfit Hope they work!

 

[Becky]

We were going through a bad patch so were looking for ideas to help us enjoy and relax abotu sex a bit more when we came across a game called "Monogomy". It's a board game but totally sex orientated. Well when I say sex, it's more about intimacy with your OH. You play round the board a few times with different squares to land on, some are set where you have to kiss/cuddle etc but some you have to pickup a card (bit like chance cards in monopoly), the first time you go round the board you pick up the tame cards, the second you pick up the slightly more heated cards and the third you pick up the HOT cards. They all have stuff on where you have to either talk about an intimate feeling or do something like massage your OH's "special" place but for no more than x mins etc.

Each time round the board you get to pick up a card with a scenario (sometimes they are role-plays sometimes suggestions about romantic things like flowers etc etc.) on it and the winner gets to choose their fave scenario and either act on it then and there or keep it till an appropriate time.

We don't play it often these days (maybe we should lol) but it was definitely a good way to help us relax about our intimacy - although the first time it felt a bit daft. Because it leads you up to sex gradually it's not so much of a pressure to either side and sex doesn't even have to be the ultimate goal!

 

[Jaidy]

I agree with Jade, dress up is always a good idea, i think us ladies ttc should go out and treat ourselves to a lovely new set of classy, pretty underwear, will make us feel a million dollars and hopefully make the DH's feel special too

 

[Tenshineko]

Dressing up is good .

 

[elviedee]

we have that Monogamy game too - it's brill actually,think i should def get it out when its ov time!
what a brill thread, keep the ideas comin, ttc it hard to keep exciting sometimes!
xx

 

[ejjie]

we have that Monogamy game too - it's brill actually,think i should def get it out when its ov time!
what a brill thread, keep the ideas comin, ttc it hard to keep exciting sometimes!
xx

I might buy this game! Where is it from, should I look on EBAY?

We've been getting sexy at different times and in different parts of the house! The kitchen table the other night

 

[andreaaa]

Oooo some great ideas so far... I'm going to get that monogomy game! Dressing up sounds great too... I'm going shopping

 

[Jade89]

Make it even more interesting and hold an ann summers party ...I'm having one in January when the new catalouge comes out Can't wait i'll try post pics when I have it

 

[Pinky38]

Your ideas are soooo welcomed ladies
Am in the same boat and I agree "monogamy" sounds wicked!!!!!
If AF arrives at the weekend then will purchase the game!!!!!

Good luck with the seduction everyone

 

[rusks]

great ideas i always find a bit of matching sexy underwear helps!! And being dominant!!

 

[Becky]

You can find the Monogomy game here and a few other more "naughty" sites too!

 

[antonia]

omg, this thread is uncanny, without going into too much detail, i have not got a very high sex drive, AT ALL, which is definately not good when you are ttc, lol, ........however the past two days i have noidea what has happened but my drive has gone through the roof , hubby cant believe his luck, pmsl. i am not ovulating so it cant be because of hormones etc (might be because he has a new haircut, lol) who knows, but i am not complaining as ttc is no longer a chore, so any tips on here would be great as i am a bit rusty, ha ha!!!!!

 

[dina.marie]

i love this thread!!! im relived im not the only one who feels like this sometimes. ive just ordered some sexy undies from ann summers too!