Kissing????

[Alfiesmummy]

I was just wondering how u felt about people kissing your baby? See I feel fine about people I know and family etc i dont bat an eyeliod but theres this one girl who i dont know very well at a mother and baby group i go to and shes always kissing him and it makes me feel really uneasy, not anything sordid like (god this sounds awfull doesnt it im so horrible) but he doesnt like this girl anyway and she is quite nice nothing against her but any time she even looks at him he goes hysterical and sobs im talking tears streaming the lot, anyways today was the first day back at mum and baby group so she came over and it was all "hasnt he grown" exchanging christmas stories etc so then she said could she have a hold and i couldnt say no it wud just be mean so i handed him over he looked at her looked at me screwed up his face and sobbed so she was hugging him and kissing him and he was just staring at me as if to say mummy come get me, so i went up and said ill have him hun cause he might be hungry (he wasnt) and she said Oh no hes fine and turned her back to me and carried on just kissing him i just wanted to scream at her to tell her to stop kissing him.
Is there something wrong with me, i mean i dont even bat an eyelid with friends and family i just think its odd, i wud never just kiss her daughter, i think its just me, i dont know but its really playing on my mind i just dont like it, god im horrible i really am!

 

[Nic'n'Keeley]

see i'm weird i don't mind my mum and dan's mum kissing keeley but ay kids ie my niece i won't let kiss her cos of all the germs that go round schools

it obovius he doesn't feel comfortable with her kissing him mayb she'll get that from him cos he's crying i don't really have any advice really sorry

 

[Izzy]

I don't really mind people kissing finlay, although it is possible to go over the top.
And I also feel kissing on the mouth is a no-no, I don't kiss my baby that way and would feel angry if anyone else dared to!

 

[Alfiesmummy]

I don't really mind people kissing finlay, although it is possible to go over the top.
And I also feel kissing on the mouth is a no-no, I don't kiss my baby that way and would feel angry if anyone else dared to!

thats what she does, on the head wouldnt bother me so much but thats why it freaks me out a bit

 

[chezzabell]

God ur horrible only joking hun

No ur not being silly at all, i dont let people i dont know very well hold Alastair at all, and no way would i let someone kiss him who i didnt know very well, and if someone had turned my back on me holding my kid i would have to say something to her

Why is it people think they have the right to do what they want with ur child at them mother and toddler groups

Tell u what piss's me off big time about mother and baby grps in when mothers sit back at watch their kids hit other kids, someone did that at my grp her daughter hit Sophie and i was so angry got up and said NO NO HINNY U SIT DOWN I WILL SORT UR KID OUT she just looked at me as if i was a idiot

 

[Tina & Gabs]

I think that is a bit much; you are not horrible at all; I would feel uncomfortable too...

 

[foxymum]

she kisses Alfie on the lips????? OMG you have to tell this woman straight!! cheeky bitch though, i wouldn't even kiss a relatives baby on the lips.
i've got a few friends who kiss Louie & i don't mind & then a few that i think 'oy get off MY boy'!!!!!!

its hard though to say to people 'stop slobbering over my son' i'd just avoid her like she has some in curable disease

 

[skatty]

I hate it when complete strangers start touching Leorah's ckkeks with their dirty hands! Its ot so bad now but when she was a newborn at the emergency clinic because she was so ill some beery breathed woman kept touching her and I wanted to scream!!!!!!!!!

I only kiss my friends' or relatives babies but with them I can't help it, I'm such a baby kisser

 

[mummykay]

im the only person Jamie gives snogs too lol!!! everyone else he offers his cheek lmao!! (face cheek, not bum cheek lol!! )

 

[Alfiesmummy]

i just thought i was being awfull thinking that but im glad other ppl feel the same, i mean ill kiss shels baby when she comes and i dont mind people i know and who he knows kissing him but it just struck me as odd ... i wouldnt kiss he baby because i dont know her, shell bless her heart thought i meant i didnt like her kissing him but he's her godson so shes family and iv known her forever, he is just so precious to me that its that overprotectiveness coming out. I think i will tell her when i see her as im so angry she turned her back on me when i tried to take him too, he's MY baby! Kay I know what you mean lippy tisses are just for mummy and Alfie

 

[Dee1985]

one thing i hate is people holding a sweet out to Dior and when she goes to take i they ask her for a kiss first!
i think its so wrong no child should kiss any one unless they want to. its breaking a limit that should never be broken. i want Dior being brought up where if she feels uneasy about doing some thing she never has to just to keep some one happy. its how all child abuses start of giving children sweets as children think they then have to give something in return.
i dont mind Family kissing my kids it does bother me though that she has to kiss them in return for a tip top. and when she wont kiss some one in my family they force her and tell her to no be silly.
i do kiss my babies on the lips though i ant get enouh of them
but some strangers do ask her for kisses i just say no. other then my italian friend as i think kissing is thier way of saying Hi.

with the girl at your toddler group. next time he starts crying just say. "ah he dont like his space being invaded" if she turns her back just say "give him here i need to feed him"

 

[*saulino*]

Hi

How aeful some poeple go over the limit , cant beleve she did this its yoru baby not hers ide ripe her hair out seriously though you need to straighten her out and tell her how you feel.
Katrina

 

[Tasha20]

Im sorry but if that was me I would of had ago at her, how dare she turn her back on you!

I always give Olivia kisses, lol I just wanna munch her all up shes sooo cute and I love her so much

But I wouldnt like anyone I didnt know kissing her friends and family no problem its just a way of showing love