Jealousy

[Tallybaby]

How do you get over jealousy?
Partners phone has pictures of naked women and comments to his friends about how he likes a girl round the corner from us, when he saw her running?
He recently proposed and I'm 24 weeks pregnant.
It just so hard to cope with

 

[Mrs M]

I don't get people who don't get jealous!

Does he know you saw his phone? Why were you checking? Did you have a reason to think you needed to?

 

[northerngirl]

Poor you that's not a nice thing to see especially when you're pregnant!
I wouldn't worry too much he's obviously just a bit careless like that but maybe you should mention that you saw it and it's made you feel pretty down.
We all know our blokes will find other women attractive at times but it's not nice to have to read or see it xox

 

[Tallybaby]

I checked because I picked up his phone twice which he took out my hand said oh he was just talking about football. So I thought it strange since he constantly looks on my phone, through email and through my laptop which he has always done since 2 months of us going out. I never looked at anything before.
So I told him I was upset at the comments on the girl running which he said is just boy talk I don't understand. And it's diffe him going through my phone as to me going through his????

I appreciate your comments, think am going stir crazy sometimes
Thank you

 

[georgie20]

aww no, your not going crazy! my boyfriend has always had a wondering eye, it didnt bother me too much as i liked a good perv too lol but when i was pregnant i could of gouged his eyes right out of his head, and its been like that for me ever since. everyone gets jealous from time to time. can you not tell him you seen and that it didnt make you feel very good xx

 

[saraian26]

He is being disrespectful to you with the naked photos and oggling other women. I would be honest and say it how it is. Otherwise you'll bottle it up and explode.

 

[1moreinthenest]

Ugggh i HATE men like that. My ex used to be the same but hid it from me, knew i hated it and his mates would i initiate a conversation about a fit girl in a film or something and i would see him giving them the eye to shut up etc. he had some naked pic of some page 3 on his screensaver once which when questioned made out it was already on the phone he got off his mate (complete shit) and added women in bands he fancied to his facebook and made up some crap about him and his mate having a competition how many celebrities they could get to add them (his mate unsurprisingly had none and all the ones he had were female!!) if he gives a shit about you he wont do it and if he he loves you he wouldnt be looking! (Im sure some blokes like to look when they have a partner, my current included, but personally i find it extreemly insulting and i dont go round looking or even wanting to look at other men. Rahhhh! Rant over