It scares me the things that could still go wrong

[babydust]

well i made it here but im feeling very low at the moment, i cant stop thinking about what little jen went through, and it scares the hell out of me what could still go wrong, it makes me feel guilty for moaning about being tired and feeling sick. I have my scan today fingers crossed that everything is ok

 

[Pregnopaws]

Hi Claire, I dont there is a mother on this board who isnt silently bubbling with fear over what could go wrong, and when tragically it does happen to someone we all think its going to happen to us. This isn't the case! Try not to panic. I do believe there is a reason for everything and if you think positively then God will help you through any anxiety you have. Once you see the LO on the screen your heart will melt so don't worry about anything if you have nothing to worry about! Good luck and look forward to seeing the scan piccy...

 

[NIE]

You're not alone babes. I feel the same but I try hard to keep it at the back of my mind.

I'm sure everything will go well for you this afternoon. Let us know how you get on. xxx

 

[Adele]

It's so sad whats happened to littlejen, her baby jess was only sposed to be a week ahead of me, i feel so thankful that things are going ok for me and my baby so far but it does make you think, what the hell would I do if that happened to me? I can't even imagine what shes going through

 

[enn]

goodluck with your scan and dont forget to get piccys and show us

i was devastated when i miscarried, but knew that my next preg would be a baby and that baby would be special.once babys born will not be outta my sight i dont think

 

[NooNoo]

i know what you mean hun...i was only a few days ahead of littlejen...

 

[laetitia85]

let's all help each other stay positive, hey

 

[kitty86]

When I was pregnant with Leah I got to 12 weeks and then thought fewww Im out of the woods now and relaxed.

I think we are are tricked into a false sense of security by midwifes and books saying the risk of miscarriage decreases then. They dont tell you about all the other things that can go horribley wrong.

 

[happy-chick]

So sorry to hear your sad news hun

 

[emma28]

I'm always scared too! You do think everythings gonna be ok after 12 weeks but there's always a worry. It never goes away, they're born and you worry bout cot death and then sids, nutrition, fitness, abduction etc then it's school and you worry bout bullying/happiness,. education God knows whats next, but I'm 28 and my mum still worries bout me.

That's probably not gonna make you feel any better though sorry! Just have some

Try not to worry too much