Is This a Normal Feeling?

[kazlin]

When I first became pregnant, it felt really surreal, after seeing Dan at 12 weeks, it became a lot more realistic. At 20 weeks, finding out it was a boy, well the bonding set in.

Now however the thought of actually holding him, having a son, feels really surreal again. Is this a normal feeling or am I just suffering from pregnancy related nonsense

 

[Squiglet]

It felt surreal even after giving birth tbh... It still does in a way like someones going to come take her away.

 

[Nicola g]

I still dont beleive im gonna be holding my baby in two weeks at the most

 

[Kylie1007]

NO it's very normal. It's also surreal when you're holding the baby and you can't believe what you've just done!!! You lose track of time!

 

[kazlin]

Thanks girls, once again you have shown me that all these 'bizarre' pregnancy feelings are normal. I tend to question myself

 

[GBLiz]

i still cant really see it happening, i guess if youve never had a baby before, theres no existing frame of reference in the brain so you literally cant imagine it

 

[DebbieM]

I feel the same way. I can't get past not having "Flump" anymore....

 

[Suzie and Faith]

Not abnormal at all!
I can't quite seem to get my head round it all. I can get to the stage of the pregnancy ending but i can't see me having my daughter for life.. I just can't imagine it!!

 

[Tillytots]

me too, I was ironing James clothes today and thinking he lives in me but soon he will be real, outside and wearing these and it was just a weird feeling

 

[muppetmummy]

me too, I was ironing James clothes today and thinking he lives in me but soon he will be real, outside and wearing these and it was just a weird feeling

I got that when I was ironing Logans bedding the other day

 

[kazlin]

I think we are all on the same pregnancy wavelength

 

[Tegala-7thMarch08]

i feel the same to i mean in a weeks tym im guna have a bubba in my arms


p.s it will be a weeks tym or less i refuse to go over due

 

[helsekia]

the feeling doesnt go away.sometimes I look at my 6 year old and still cant believe shes mine.as they say a mothers love is unconditional and neverending and its very true.

 

[Red_Fairy]

agree that that feeling never really goes. When i think of hannah as a 5, 10, 15, 45 year old i cant and its totally surreal.
I felt it when i was pregnant. As if it would never really happen.

 

[Kimbo]

It felt surreal even after giving birth tbh... It still does in a way like someones going to come take her away.

same here