Is it bad that I feel like this??

[sg31]

I'm 31 and all but 1 of my friends have children. I love them all dearly but after 11 mths of TTC I'm finding it increasingly difficult to enthuse about sore boobs, nappies and the terrible 2's! I've deactivated my facebook because the constant updates of pregancy and little ones are getting a little much. I would never dream of saying this to them because it's nothing they are doing wrong but it's starting to get to me and surprisingly my hubby. Am I wrong for saying this?? x

 

[laurat]

No you are not wrong for saying it. I feel the same at times! Im the same age as you and am experiencing similar conversations and posts on fb! The thing is these people probably just dont understand what its like to be ttc and struggling a little. Its not there fault either so I do try not to get upset with them. I am ultimately happy for them. On here is helpful as you can get things off your chest and realise you are not alone.

 

[LouiseB]

Ofcourse not

It's hard to be the odd one out of anything, but to have constant reminders of that fact is enough to depress anyone.

I hope you can find a way to detach yourself and focus all your energy on ttc rather than being upset

 

[Annie050408]

No, that's completely understandable hon. xx

 

[Drummers_wife]

ive had a mass cull on Facebook too- cant stand seeing people announcing pregnancies and updates every 2 mins about their child did this or that!!

good to let the feelings out always here to listen x x