Irrational?

[Flame]

For the last couple of days i have had these horrible thoughts that my oh is going to leave us and it is putting me on the verge of tears all the time.

I'm not sure where these thoughts have come from cause he is great with the lo and he gives me big hugs when i get upset about it but it is constantly on my mind at the moment and its a bit pointless telling him how i feel about it cause he just says everything is fine.

Is is baby blues or pnd? or am i just going mental?

 

[Emmylou]

Sounds to me like baby blues hun, as long as you continue to talk to your OH about your feelings, he is best kept in the loop (also better to not let these thoughts grow inside you )
Hope you feel happier soon - usually only lasts a day or two so the better days should be on the way

 

[Flame]

Thanks Emmylou

I hope your right.

 

[budge]

i think affter we have babies we do all feel a little bit more vulnerable and insecure.
tell you OH how you are feeling and keep talking to him and telling him how you feel. It will soon pass as you get more and more back to normal (well in a routine more like) with your new baby.

 

[Emmylou]

I'm sure you'll feel okay soon, your hormones are everywhere still babe, and you will be tired whether you admit it to others or not, and the two are a nightmare combination.

My key tip......sleep when LO sleeps - easier said than done I know, but if you take any advice at all, thats the one to listen to.

Lots of love to you & yours

 

[Baileysmummy]

How are you today hun

 

[Flame]

Feeling ok at the moment thanks but it tends to start later in the evening.

Gonna have a couple of glasses of wine tonight so hopefully the niggly feelings will stay away.

 

[cloud9]