Indecisive OH's!!!

[xSebbiesMumx]

Who has em?..Mine is really doing my nut in!, the other day i was looking through Sebastian's baby photos and smiling to myself, so much nostalgia of a new baby!, me and my OH sometimes reminisce of the days when he was small and ill say how much i miss it, but he is somewhat skeptical as he was the one doing all the night feeds as i wasn't really allowed to move much since i had a c-section :\, but after 6 weeks i took over the duties!

We had a MC in January, we we're both shocked when i found out i was pregnant as we didn't expect it to happen but it did!, sadly it ended in MC, we we're both gutted..Me more so than him, still to this day i cant get over it!, but when this happened he promised me next year we'd have another..But then other times he says he's done pro-creating which leaves me so frustrated..Sometimes when we are out he will point out new babies, or i see bumps and remember mine, and it drives me crazy!!

Just a straight answer would be nice, either give me a baby or stop rubbing my face in it!!

Anyone elses OH's indecisive?..Or is it just mine that thinks its funny to play with a womans emotions!

 

[queenriccy]

Yep mine !

One minute he wants another and he says 'lets get the sleepless nights over with now' and 'we will have 2 so close together that they will be best of mates' then in the next sentence he will say 'Im so glad Olly sleeps properly now,' and 'i dont think i could go back to sleepless nights' !!!??

Im like WTF ??!!

XX

 

[xSebbiesMumx]

Glad to hear im not alone in all of this!!..Drives you bloody crazy doesn't it?

 

[Mrs M]

We were like this a few years ago, when was the right time to have number 1, then number 2! Grrr! I was ready years ago but dh took a little bit longer!

 

[xSebbiesMumx]

Men, who'd have em?..Sometimes I wish we could reproduce without men..No stopping me then

 

[Mrs M]

I quite like the practising though! Hee hee!

 

[xSebbiesMumx]

Agreed, it is great but baby making for real sort of adds that extra sparkle to it