Thanks girls!
Stephen is still a little unsure of her but is warming to her, he strokes her and calls her pretty which os only good, no agression as of yet. But we do spend lots of time with him and her.
I had them both on my lap earlier sleeping and it was lovely seeing them both together.
After that labour id have another baby too as it was easy! still cant believe i got to the hospital at four and she was here 3/4 of a hour later.I have just proved that 'obese' women can have natural easy births girls, if i had had my HB in macclesfield it would have been a doddle!
And my tummy has gone down loads and im eating sensibly to start getting rid of the weight, not that im ru8shing itnas i dont look bad at all in my normal clothes!