Oh I'm enjoying it don't worry. Feel free to be as 'smug' as you like honey, I'm not in envy of you here. I only found this website because my ex/your other half was turning up at MY house to play with OUR daughter, sobbing over how much he loved me and would wait forever for me blah de blah, whilst all the time keeping you in reserve and lying through his back teeth whenever I picked up on little things and caught him out. I have no interest in him whatsoever you are more than welcome to him don't worry about that, but I have my child to think of and she doesn't deserve the lies. Especially when I made it clear I had no problem with the situation but would like to know the truth for her sake so I know the deal when she is with him. Yet he STILL tried to cover it up for some ridiculous reason.
I have nothing against you, I never have. And I've never done anything but try to understand the reality of the situation for M's sake. If it makes me the bad one because I've had to resort to such pathetic measures in order to search through the lies then ok, fine. But that seems bizarre to me.
And to the Moderators, I'm not here to cause trouble. I've been trying to delete my account for weeks so if you could sort that for me so A can use this site as normal I would appreciate it.