I'm off for a bit

[x_larlybelle_x]

Can't cope with being on here and people getting their s.

Had my consultant appt last monday, was told, along with my pcos, i have tubal deformation. we were given a 1% chance of becoming pregnant naturally, with a 99% chance of it being an eptopic.


i have to have a hycosy scan to decide whether or not my tubes need to be removed (I am only 25)

as you can imagine, this was a huge shock , we were expecting clomid, not having my tubes removed.

we are being referred for IVF at next appt (07.03.11) so its not all bad news, its just not the way anyone thinks it will happen.

having trouble coping with pregnant people, people finding out they are pregnant, just feels like they are rubbing my nose in it.

one of my cousins has just had a baby, now another cousin is pregnant.

im annoyed if our 2 cycles dont work, its £4k a go. some people can have a baby a year if they want, dont work and have never paid a penny for them. yet if our 2 free cycles dont work, i have to pay for the priviledge of becoming a parent??? its not my fault im the way i am, pees me right off.

so, i need a break. need to stop thinking about becoming pregnant naturally and try and cope with havin to go through ivf.

thanks for all your support in the past

to all
xx

 

[Kay1987]

Wishing you the best of luck with your IVF. x

 

[Tracey M]

Oh honey I'm sorry to hear all that. At least now you know that IVF is the route to go now and you're nice and young so make it even more promising! Sooo many people get pregnant easily on IVF so dont be down, it could be you. Please dont disappear completely and come back to us when you are going through your IVF so we can give you all the support you need!

 

[emz1980]

Good luck with the IVF, xxx

 

[rachaellouise]

So sorry to hear your bad news but there is positive in there too, wishing you all the best and hope to see you back on the forum soon

 

[LouiseB]

Hiya Carly,

I'm really sorry about your news - although quite selfishly relieved at the same time because i've been feeling the same as you since i found out my husbands sperm is rubbish and we will probably need IVF.

I've been feeling really sad and alone because i don't know anyone that is in the same situation. Not quite ttc, but not quite IVF - limbo. I can't get my head around it either. IVF isn't how i was supposed to have babies...

I know that your news is much more shocking and extreme, and tragic even, but maybe we can help each other through it?

Babylover is in a similar situation too, a bit ahead of me in the process so maybe give her a pm too - i'm sure she feels a bit isolated too and would welcome a chat.

I'm going to add you on Facebook, i did ignore your invite at first because i didn't know who you was but i obviously know now

 

[Naomi D]

Sorry larlybelle

 

[BabyLover]

awwww thanks Louise for pointing me out, of course I will help anyone if I can

I know exactly what you are going through and like Louise said if you want to chat then please feel free to PM as we are going through the same thing.

I will add you both on facebook xx

 

[Spinneygirl]

Sorry to hear that, good luck with the IVF and keep us posted xxx

 

[LouiseB]

I will add you both on facebook xx

I tired to add you from the PF page but it doesn't look like you allow people to friend you

You can find both me and Carly on the PF facebook page - i'm kind of obvious, look for the Louise... B-