I'm going to scream

[buddabun]

oh you poor thing what a whirlwind to put you through!!

For what it's worth I'm 23, my hubby's 36 as well. We have fallen pregnant twice so obviously his swimmers are getting there. Like others have said, age isn't as much of an issue for men, especially if they stay sexually active. They can have kids right into their 70s as long as they are having regular sex! So don't stress yourself out worrying too much about that hon.

Make sure he knows you will not be impressed if he pulls a stunt like that again though! If he's going to have a wobble.change of heart/crisis then make sure he does it when you have AF or BEFORE you've ovulated

HUGS

 

[amilea09]

I've made it very clear I don't want no more wobbles. I told him we both decided to have the implant removed and ttc so he can't just change his mind whenever he wants! I feel really ill I hope I ain't got a bug x x x

 

[buddabun]

Hope so too... fingers crossed and good on ya for telling him straight!

 

[EllieBelle]

Was just going to add dont worry too much about the age of his "swimmers" my DH is just 41 (oh and Im not that young at 34) and we conceived within 6 weeks of me coming off the pill, and I had been taking it non stop for 18 years!!!

If he has fathered children in the past, he shouldnt have any problems!!

Hope you managed to sort him out though, he cant keep changing his mind - thats really not very fair

 

[xxsammyxx]

I've made it very clear I don't want no more wobbles. I told him we both decided to have the implant removed and ttc so he can't just change his mind whenever he wants! I feel really ill I hope I ain't got a bug x x x

You tell him girl!!!! Good luck for your BFP!

 

[amilea09]

I cba with him now he's bein funny agen I've told him he can stay at his mums tonight and sort his head out

 

[MrsU]

Its sound like you two both really need to sit down together & have a proper chat about everything! Something is still obviously not right No glossing over any issues, as they always resurface!
Good luck with it all, hope you do manage to sort things out x