I'm breaking him down!

[tipper]

My DH and I were talking the other night about starting TTC (after I had a fit the night before due to him blowing off the conversation), and it came out that he's not exactly scared about anything i.e. losing free time, the extra cost, lack of sleep, etc, but he just needs to get over the fact that more than likely we won't have our own place first.

That's good news I suppose, but the part that made me happy was that he made a comment and phrased it "..when you're pregnant". So it's not an "if" situation anymore, it's a "when"! He went on to say though "when you're pregnant, you're going to be an absolute pill!" What a charmer, eh?

But he's thinking about it! And he told me that he's thinking about this even at work now, not just when I pester him at home!!

Awhile back I had asked Zholar (sp?) if hubby and I would be TTC before the end of the year, and he said yes! Perhaps he'll be right

We have a baby shower to go to tomorrow (I'm only a tad jealous.. ), so I think I'll drag him shopping with me tonight to help pick out all the adorable baby items. Just hope that doesn't blow up in my face and send him into a panic.


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On a side note, a couple of weeks ago I messed up and forgot to pick up my Pill prescription (honestly, I completely forgot..no side agenda with that). I wonder if I should try talking to hubby to see if he would mind me staying off. I've asked him before if he would be OK with me getting off of them, and he didn't seem too thrilled. But seeing how he is ever-so-slightly more OK with the whole idea, maybe I should give it another shot. I'd rather start now with letting my body get back to normal, vs. when I have the official "lets go!".

 

[lilly]

My OH was not so sure too, although we do have our own house, its a huge step.

I had been thinking about it long before we talked about it but i think us girls do. so it only seems right that we give our OH time to take it in too!

he will come round if its the right thing for you both..

i came off the depo 3 years ago with the thought in mind of starting when we got a house, i wanted my body back to normal.


good luck.

 

[EllieBelle]

Brilliant news.........all looking very positive!

I would certainly say you are thinking of stopping the pill now!

I told my DH that I wanted to start TTC and that it may take 2 years or more as had been on the pill for 18 years - his reply was "well stop taking it then", so I did - 6 weeks later I got my BFP - all a little quicker than planned

Good luck hun