i was doing so well

[Anna23]

but now i'm really low again, i realy though we were doing really well i even turned down counseling but now i feel like shite again i know its been 2 months and things are realy still raw but i just miss bambino so much i'd of been 21 weeks now

 

[Becky]

You say 2 months like it's a long time, it really isn't when it comes to a loss. It was at least 5 months for me before I felt like I was even beginning to come to terms with my loss.

It's natural to have good days/weeks and bad ones too. Try not to expect too much from yourself, there is no right length of time to "get over it" and to be honest you'll never be over it, you just learn to deal with it so you can carry on with life and be happy.

If you think you might get something out of counselling then ask for it again, it's not a one chance only thing, you can ask for it at any point.

 

[Anna23]

You say 2 months like it's a long time, it really isn't when it comes to a loss. It was at least 5 months for me before I felt like I was even beginning to come to terms with my loss.

It's natural to have good days/weeks and bad ones too. Try not to expect too much from yourself, there is no right length of time to "get over it" and to be honest you'll never be over it, you just learn to deal with it so you can carry on with life and be happy.

If you think you might get something out of counselling then ask for it again, it's not a one chance only thing, you can ask for it at any point.

i know i can ask for it again but i'll go to the back of the waiting list again (was on it for over a year)
i know 2 months isn't a long time but i was doing so well and coping and my energy was getting back on track, i feel disapointed with myself for feeling low again

 

[puppylove]

Anna i do hope u feel a little better soon but having a loss isnt easy and it does take time and you will never stop thinking of your little one, i wanna send lots of to you.

 

[dina.marie]

sorry ur feeling low again anna. hope u feel better soon

 

[Anna23]

i'm making cakes to take my mind off being low

 

[mrs_metal]

Cakes are good, can I come round?

It does get easier but gets very hard again around the due date so prepare yourself for that. Mine is this coming Sunday and I'm not doing to well at the moment but I'm sure it will get easier again after.

Look after yourself

 

[chellieboo]