I saw Peanut today :D

[misscrazycooki]

I went to the hospital for my usual checks for diabetes etc, ended up getting a quick scan. Was well happy to know there is a little baby growing in there nicely. Looked like a kidney bean with a pulsing heartbeat. I didn't even know I would get a scan today so it was a nice surprise.

They put me on 5MG Folic Acid as to protect baby from diabetes and on asprin for something placenta related I can't remember x

Just wanted to share my news on how I got on. It dated me at 7 weeks 6 days but they said they wouldn't take that date as its too early. Going to take my date from 12 weeks. Roll on the 13th December. Anyones Birthday?

 

[deedee84]

aww what a lovely surprise hun glad your lil bean is all ok!! xx

 

[kanga86]

Aww what a lovely surprise getting to see ur lil peanut glad all is well xx

 

[misscrazycooki]

Yeah was happy to see peanut Just worried that they have classed me higher high risk now I had protein in wee and doctor wouldn't say what could have caused it just gave me asprin. I looked it all up myself scared myself a little so maybe thats why she didn't say anything. She even gave me a leaflet on vbac. I was like I'm 8 weeks woman lol I don't know yet. But I am swaying towards section more now I am worrying about this pre eclampsia x

 

[BumbleTumble]

awww, thats a lovely surprise!

did you get any pics?

 

[misscrazycooki]

No I didn't have any money on me till I got my bus fare back. Plus didn't know I was having one till I walked into the scan room. I think I saw all the staff on htere today dietician, diabetic specialist doctors x2, scanner, midwife. I'm so loved there they even remembered me and were so impressed with Leo. He even sang for them, they said he is going to be on britains got talent haha. The first person to recgonise me was recepionst x

 

[Kirsty.Y.84]

Glad all is well! Its amazing isnt it? My birthday is 14th December and I'm hoping to get my 12 week scan before then! cx

 

[TaffyRose]

Ah that's great hun. I can't wait for my scan xxx

 

[BellaRiven]

Yay what a lovely surprise, sorry it's left you a bit worried though xx

 

[misscrazycooki]

I'mjust taking each day as it comes, Today is the start of all the new meds they gave me. Just my partner really he doesn't seem to be very supportive in the knowing I need less stress etc. He has until christmas then I'm off, do you think I'm wrong to think or do that? I just can't take anymore arguing, smoking pot around me and the swearing infront of my son x

 

[Maria1977]

Aww happy that you got a scan and to see LO there. Glad everything is going well xxx

 

[deedee84]

I'mjust taking each day as it comes, Today is the start of all the new meds they gave me. Just my partner really he doesn't seem to be very supportive in the knowing I need less stress etc. He has until christmas then I'm off, do you think I'm wrong to think or do that? I just can't take anymore arguing, smoking pot around me and the swearing infront of my son x

i dont think your wrong in doing that hun, you want whats best for you and the kids, nothing wrong in that, it might be the kick up the ass he needs to change maybe! i took drastic action with my OH 2 years back because he still acted like a bloody young teenager and i was sick of it and it was the best thing i ever did because he is deffo more family orientated and grown up now (and so he should be for 30yrs old lol) xx

 

[misscrazycooki]

DeeDee I have left once but he went back to his old ways blames everyone but himself, :S I'm stubborn in my ways so that probably doesn't help but I just want whats best for leo and don'twant him turning into his daddy.

I just get threatened if I leave I can't take leo so I'm going to ask social services next time I see them about his rights as a father at the moment.

By all means I'mnot perfect, but I feel like I'm always the guilty party x

 

[Loula]

do whats best for the kiddies, he seems like he needs to change his ways and grow up a little.
isnt the saying u dont realise wat youve got til its gone xxx

 

[deedee84]

you shouldnt be made to feel guilty hun, its him thats in the wrong, i know how you feel though hun as my OH was by the sounds of it just like yours, he was more bothered about going out with his mates taking recreational drugs and basically not giving a toss about me, think i walked out on several occasions, he changed for all of a week then was back to his old ways! i thought us having a child together would change things but it didnt so one day i walked and while i was at my mums i got myself a private rented house 15 miles from where we were living (without breathing a word to my OH lol), it was deffo the kick up the ass he needed as hes now with me, away from his past and hasnt touched drugs in over a year and a half...drastic action is deffo the way forward if possible hun! deffo speak to social services for advice though, at least you will know where you stand and what your rights are with Leo x

 

[misscrazycooki]

I'd love to be able to get my own private house just saving up the deposit for it. Need about a grand . Always skint with him. I make sure Leo has all his stuff first he is my rock and star I couldn't blame him or take anything away from him ever. x

Meh I need to have a good day girls, I got go council today sort out our rent as its not getting paid so thats something to get me out the house. He is asleep as usual never rises from his pit till about 11. I just gave up with him. Easiler for me to ignore it haha. I'm not being depressed and down because he can't be a man. I am strong independant and need noone x Hugs ladies x

 

[deedee84]

haha deffo sounds like my OH back in the days, we were behind with the rent for our council house thats why i ended up private renting, my OH even spent the nursery fees in the bookies one day which unfortunately ended up in my daughter been kicked out of nursery so i had to quit my job!! Men!! glad i'm getting back on my feet now though, i think thats whats done it, thinking of my self as a strong independent lass that needs no one but me n my daughter (n blob when he/she comes along lol) ya never know hun...he might grow up one day lol!! xx

 

[TaffyRose]

Hey hun, first off sending you a big hug Like the others have said you have to put you, Leo and the baby first so if leaving is what is best (even if it's just short term) then that's what you have to do. My OH isn't bad but he does get very stressed and moody and take quite a lot out of me emotionally at times. Since finding out I was pregnant I just wasn't prepared to put up with it and certainly wasn't going to let him act that way in front of my baby and I made that very clear. I think it shocked him to see how serious I was and he is definitely trying, in fact he's been brill. You and your kiddies deserve the best hun we're all here for you xxx

 

[laura.roper]

I went to the hospital for my usual checks for diabetes etc, ended up getting a quick scan. Was well happy to know there is a little baby growing in there nicely. Looked like a kidney bean with a pulsing heartbeat. I didn't even know I would get a scan today so it was a nice surprise.

They put me on 5MG Folic Acid as to protect baby from diabetes and on asprin for something placenta related I can't remember x

Just wanted to share my news on how I got on. It dated me at 7 weeks 6 days but they said they wouldn't take that date as its too early. Going to take my date from 12 weeks. Roll on the 13th December. Anyones Birthday?

aww bet that was a lovely surprise then do they look after u if u have diabities then? xxx

 

[misscrazycooki]

Yeah they monitor you throught the whole pregnancy. Usually you have a GTT later on at 28 weeks. But I was diabetic last time so I did some sugars myself with my monitor found they were goin ghigh again.Got doctors appointment who agreed to me taking my metforim again I just wanted a go ahead as I would have taken them myself off my own back otherwise. The sooner I spotted it the better really, as you have more risks to you and baby x Still I'm happy.