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Dionne has a small gap I'll give her a buzz

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Hi, I really wanted to say that you have managed to bring a beautiful little one into the world and your OH sounds supportive and I am sure that although your world is probably caving in around you right now that it might not be as bad as it seems, just think you already know what your doing, the items you need are already around you such as bottles/clothes, etc and they can entertain each other as they grow and as you probably dont know what sleep is at the moment anyway you might surprise yourself at how well you'll do!!!!!

Good luck for the scan!

ps. I would definately feel the same as you if I were in your situation but the other side is that when it comes to having another baby I probably wont reme,ber what to do so will have to start all over again....with the usual change and conflicting advice from people :wall:
 
Its really not that bad having 2 so close together! Mine have 13 months between then and its a lot easier than I thought it was gonna be! As long as you have got good support around you. Good luck with what ever decision you make.
 
I don't have any advice as I haven't been in this situation but what I will say is make your decision carefully, you dont want to do the wrong thing and regret it in the future. Good luck with what ever you choose to do hun, I'm thinking of you :hug:
 
aww hun i dont have any advice but please make the right decision hun :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:
 
My gap isnt that small (2 years) but just for the record, some days are crappy and some days are fantastic. Its all about a routine and having an open mind.

If I could go back I would maybe even have them closer together rather than further apart.
 
I don't have any experience, but just sending hugs and hope you can figure out what is the best thing for you. There's loadsa people on here that can help you, but don't feel pressurised into something you don't want either way - there's always a way.. and things can work well whatever you choose to do if you have the right support around you. :hug:
 
ahhh hun dont be to scared honestly
there are many more good days then bad.
once they are both here you just get on with it, my 2 are so close like best frineds they play together all the time eat the same food together have same intrest in tv shows and toys same bath time bed time
iwouldnt change it for the world its harder work now they are a bit older as they love to draw on my walls and paint each other and Dior washs his hair with bubble bath and they fight over dummies.
but other then that its fantastic they play together for hours ild never turn back time to have 1 child
(thanks for pm Urchin)
 
oh hun. ive not been there, but i can imagine how scared you are. :hug:

your the only one who can decide. do you have lots of support?

if its just your worried how you will cope/need a bigger place ect, dont. things always work out. i know that from experience.

it would be hard at times yes. but i honestly think id rather have them closer together. just think how well they will get on.

but, if you decide you dont want the baby, everyone will support you.

best of luck with your scan, and the decision you make.

:hug:
 
i have a huge gap between mine....14 years to be exact. dont rush into any decisions and just go with what your head and heart tells you. try not to let other people influence you after all its you that has to carry the can so to speak at the end of the day.
whatever you decide we are all here
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Hi there,

I've just read your update.

I'm so pleased you've come to a decision that you are both tentatively happy with.

I know it will be so hard financially, physically and emotionally but I bet it'll end up being a blessing in disguise.

How are you feeling?

Love

Valentine xxx
 
pregnancy wise? - well i have none of the symptoms i had with hannah yet (tiredness and sore boobs) but ive been sick quite alot over the weekend..but im really not sure if that was stress (with making a decission) or pregnancy related. lol

other wise i feel fine :) thanks for asking :)
 
:hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:

i wish u the best of luck with ur pregnancy and having 2 little ones. im sure once the baby is born u definately wont regret having him/her, but i doubt very much a termination would not hav caused any regrets. i think u made the right decision. im sure youll do fine, and be a fab mum-of-2!
 
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It sounds like you've made the right decision if you don't know if you could have gone through with a termination and were not 100% sure.

Wishing you the best of luck and a very chilled pregnancy :) , it might be hard work but I'm sure it'll all be worth it and you'll look back with no regrets :hug:
 
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