I need to rant

[maria1976]

Bloody neighbour!!!!!!

I live in converted flats, which means that you nede to press a buzzer before:

a: I let you in
b: Want to answer the bloody thing to see anyone.

Now Im used to my privacy in the day and I have a bloody neighbour below me, who takes it upon herself to come and knock on my door uninvited.
Today, I had a friend here and the door goes so i ignore it, then just now when I was asleep another bloody knock so I was half asleep and ignored it.
Its driving me scatty. Ive just text her to ask if everything is ok and ive just woken up but am very tempted to text her and say something else and will be along the lines of please text or phone before you pop up GRRRRRR

They have been on holiday for two weeks and it has been bliss, but the terror is back. My DH sort of knows him through college but they dont bloody know me and I dont want her bloody knocking on my F***** door.

Help, what can I do to give her the message she doesnt seem to be getting it at all.

 

[Melly+2]

Put a post it on the door saying 'piss off' on it lol

 

[maria1976]

Arggggggggggghh Just had people round to visit the flat as I want to move out and she bloody calls me to i divert it to anserphone ans she has left a message saying,

I know you have been cooped up in the flat for the past 24 hours and im going swimming and wondering if you want to come with me as im worried your not getting enough exercice!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR Now im really mad. Im pregnant and tired you silly cow.

 

[Melly+2]

seriously tell her to fook off, its none of her buissness what you do with your time, you dont need people like that cramping ur style, hugs hun

 

[glitzyglamgirl]

Its sounds like shes just concerned and trying to make friends with her neighbour. Nothing wrong with that? If its really so terrible, then just be honest with her and tell her you will give her a text next time you want to get together but not to expect it as you are very busy/tired/hormonal most of the time.

 

[lauramumof2]

stalker, you will need to be rude to her.
I hate people like that. Not enough going on in their own lives that they need to interfere in other peoples.

 

[maria1976]

Thanks for the advice girls, I mean today is just the icing on the cake!!! I have received numerous texts.
I think she is just lonely and bored, but i dont want her here boring me either LOL
I HATE people worrying about me for god sake im 31, and I didnt leave home at 17 to be now be stalked by someonw who doesnt know me and who has no right to worry about me.

What did her last stalker die of I wonder

 

[Babylicious]

Tell her you don't like her and she needs help

 

[maria1976]

Just realised what i wrote " What did her last stalker die of"

I know what i mean but cant think of the words to say it

 

[Nicola]

Pop a card/note through her door. Just say while you appreciate her concern and friendship you really are just tired, hormonal and really need the peace and quiet just now. Fingers crossed (if your trying to move) it will happen before you have your LO and you'll not have to bother again, if your still there you have baby as an excuse!! I think she's just being overly neighbourly...just a polite note/chat should do the trick.

 

[mrs_tommo22]

Id be stewing too, she sounds bloody annoying cos liek you i love my privacy!
You can A - Slap her silly and tell her to piss off and get a life cos you have one.

Or you can B - Next time she txts or calls tell ehr your busy but you appreciate the gesture all the same but are not really one for hanging out as such and being pregnant you are just wanting some peace and quiet as your very tired and need your rest

 

[foxymum]

awww hun i know how you feel, i have a stalker up the school (another mother) but at least she doesn't live near me!
some people just don't get the message do they?
if you don't want to be friends then why should you? i woud just try to be a bit 'unfirendly' towards her till she gets the message

thats what i did with mine, but shes started up again!! mine is also heavily pregnant so i feel sorry for her!
good luck hun