I need a whinge!

[Dinky]

Sorry!!!
Just a bit frustrated that my OH knows how poorly I feel ( i have mild bronchitis) and how run down I am, yet he is finishing work at 7pm (having been there from 7am) and is going to a friends house for tea (to which I am NEVER invited!!!) She was his childhood sweetheart and although I know he has no feelings, neither does she and they are just close mates now, I just feel a bit like he should cancel to come home to support me!!? Maybe I am just being silly. I have my 5 yr old step son to look after plus my 11 year old niece, their tea to cook, bedtimes to do and all I want to do is sleep

Had to get it off my chest!!!!!!!

 

[Maria1977]

Yeah I would defo be miffed too! You shouldn't have to ask, but I think you should as you need to rest hun, your body is telling you to slowdown and take it easy. Men really don't think alot of the time

Hope you feel better soon

 

[Dinky]

I have just spoken to him, I didn't mention that I was peed off but he has admitted that tonight wasn't a good night to plan anything as he wants to me home with me....I guess that makes me feel a bit better but still got lots to do. He'll be sorry when I am in bed when he gets home!! mwahahaha!!!!x

 

[Maria1977]

Awww hun!

You are defo a better person than me coz I would've stamped my feet and cried that I need help lol

xxxxx

 

[Dinky]

Bless ya He doesnt often go out to be honest, he was out on Friday for a few beers with his best mate but bless him, came home completely sober, and before that I can't remember the last time he went out without me

My stepson is in bed now, tea all done, dishes done and my niece is on skype with her friends so finally time to chill!

Have a lovely evening Maria x

 

[Loula]

if you feel that way id defo express it, maybe not tonight but if the occasion arises again x

 

[Dinky]

He goes for tea with hers once every couple of months and i have no issue with that at all! (i did once, but not these days) its just tonight where I feel so poorly, hormonal and tired....

The thing about my OH is that he is amazing in every way!! I love him with every inch of my being and he can do as he pleases when he pleases (as can I). Just for one night though, I need him here x