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[*Kate*]

Hi ladies, im new here and I just noticed this board, I hope you dont mind if I join you.

I have had several m/c in the past, the most recent being in october. I bled for 3 weeks before I lost my little bean, I had several scans during that 3 weeks and baby was prefect with a heartbeat everytime. So im not quite sure what went wrong there I also had an ovarian ectopic in march.

Yesterday I found out i was pregnant again and I am terrified it is either going to be ectopic again or that I will lose yet another baby I am due september 24th, I wish i could go to sleep and wake up when its time to give birth - then I wouldnt need to worry lol x

 

[ejjie]

Oh hon it must be really hard for you. When will you go and see the doctors about this pregnancy? I presume they will book you in for a reassurance scan?

 

[*Kate*]

Thanks hun, I will be seeing my doctor early next week and he will probably want to send me for betas doing and a scan at 7 weeks to check it isnt ectopic again like he did when i got pregnant last time. I dont really want the betas doing though because they caused me so much stress last time, I would just sit there panicking until I got the results. So I might just tell him I want a scan and thats that - but im not sure yet

 

[BabySols]

Hello, firstly congratulations on your pregnancy, i really hope it works out well for you and you have a happy 9 months. The only way there is to get through this is to remember each pregnancy is different so just because you have had some horrible times in the past, it doesn't mean you will have the same this time. Chances are everything will be fine and Sept will come around before you realize. Best of luck

 

[*Kate*]

Thanks hun, It hasnt really sunk in that I am pregnant yet, but when I do think about it i think bad stuff. Do I make sense I keep telling myself I shouldnt worry about something I have NO control over but I cant help it. I guess I just need to chill out a bit lol x

 

[HannahD]

Many congratulations on your pregnancy. Here's to a healthy 9 months

 

[susan_1981]

So sorry for your losses but congrats on being pregnant again. Hope you have a happy and healthy 9 months.

Just wanted to say, my friend had an ectopic pregnancy and now has a very happy and healthy little girl xxx

 

[Bumblebee]

Hello and welcome to the forum

Congratulations on your pregnancy, hope you have a happy and healthy 9 months.
I had an ectopic in February 2007 and had my left tube removed. I got pregnant again and had a baby girl in March last year. I totally understand the anxiety of not knowing if everything is ok. I know its difficult but try not to worry.

 

[Charlotte_faeriemad]

Welcome Kate, great news about your pregnancy. I understand your worries just take one day at a time x

 

[Waiting4amiracle]

Hi Hun Congratulations on your good news
I am a multiple miscarraige patient i have no children as of yet
but i know just how you feel when your pg when i become pregnant its very worrying
every pregnancy is different so my fingers are crossed that this pregnancy is here to stay
for you till you give birth to him/her in 8mths time karen xx

 

[buddabun]

Congratulations on your BFP.

I've had 2 m/cs and am worried about this one too. I'm trying to stay positive and enjoy this pregnany, even if it ends too soon.

I'm due the day after you

Big hugs, try to think positive