Hi again!

[Annie050408]

Hi all

Well here I am again! I am currently in the middle of a miscarriage but have decided that the best way for me to deal with it is to get back in the saddle as it were. I am disappointed but feel oddly optimistic and accept that that pregnancy was not meant to be.

I have just ordered some OPKs and am going to start TTC again as soon as the OPKs pick up ovulation.

Best of luck to everyone TTC. xx

 

[Laura_C]

Annie you have a wonderful positive attitude, it's so refreshing

Like you we got to TTC again as soon as we could. Hospital told us to wait a cycle, then go ahead and that's what we did. I wanted to make sure my body was back to normality so to speak and was very relieved to get that period! I think it took a little longer than my usual cycle but only by about a week or two

Good luck on your TTC journey honey, I don't expect you'll be waiting too long xxx

 

[Beckyjane]

Hi Annie!

So sorry to hear about your misscarriage. I had one in April. So glad to see your back in TTC, cant let it get us down.

Good luck! Lots of baby dust! xx

 

[maybe baby]

Welcome back Annie,

FX you'll be super fertile after your M/C and be preggers again very soon.

Good luck.



xx

 

[daniph1]

So sorry about the miscarriage but your attitude is refreshing and amazing. well done you! Fingers very very crossed for you xxxx

 

[Nurse 26]

Sorry you are back annie but glad to see your so positive bet you will be out of here in no time. xx

 

[Vickyxx]

I am very sorry to hear your news Annie, you are one tough cookie and have an amazing outlook , I hope your stay here is very short xxxxxxxxx

 

[kanga86]

Annie so ur not waiting til after ur first AF to ttc? going for it straight away? I'm unsure of what to do? I'm still bleeding from my mmc so got awhile to think about it Xx

 

[faithangle]

Welcome back annie and sorry to hear about your m/c fx for that bfp sending you loads of sticky baby dust xx

 

[Annie050408]

Annie so ur not waiting til after ur first AF to ttc? going for it straight away? I'm unsure of what to do? I'm still bleeding from my mmc so got awhile to think about it Xx

I'm going to start doing OPKs next week to get an idea about where my cycle is and then as soon as I see I am ovulating will BD. I don't see any reason to wait. I don't feel my body has been through trauma and I'm looking at it as a late AF because the baby never grew - from what I can gather it attached, tried to develop but couldn't so miscarried. I don't feel overly emotional about it either, which might sound cold, but it really isn't, I am just looking at it with a calm and realistic head on. My bean never had a heartbeat and so in my mind, was never living.

We really want another baby soon and as small as possible of an age gap so it makes sense to start trying as soon as we can.

Best of luck on your TTC journey hon.xx

 

[flisstebbs]

hi annie, sorry to hear about your mc. I had one in feb and did the same thing you did, but the opks pick up some of the residual hcg so look positive the whole month or at the wrong time, so it gets really confusing. I did loads of reading up during the few days off work i had and there is no medical reason why you can't try again first cycle, but be careful of BD too quick (ie while still having any bleeding) cos you can get infection due to cervix being slightly open.

fx for you

 

[Annie050408]

hi annie, sorry to hear about your mc. I had one in feb and did the same thing you did, but the opks pick up some of the residual hcg so look positive the whole month or at the wrong time, so it gets really confusing. I did loads of reading up during the few days off work i had and there is no medical reason why you can't try again first cycle, but be careful of BD too quick (ie while still having any bleeding) cos you can get infection due to cervix being slightly open.

fx for you

Thanks hon- this is really useful info. Xx

 

[kanga86]

Annie so ur not waiting til after ur first AF to ttc? going for it straight away? I'm unsure of what to do? I'm still bleeding from my mmc so got awhile to think about it Xx

I'm going to start doing OPKs next week to get an idea about where my cycle is and then as soon as I see I am ovulating will BD. I don't see any reason to wait. I don't feel my body has been through trauma and I'm looking at it as a late AF because the baby never grew - from what I can gather it attached, tried to develop but couldn't so miscarried. I don't feel overly emotional about it either, which might sound cold, but it really isn't, I am just looking at it with a calm and realistic head on. My bean never had a heartbeat and so in my mind, was never living.

We really want another baby soon and as small as possible of an age gap so it makes sense to start trying as soon as we can.

Best of luck on your TTC journey hon.xx

I really want to try straight away too but u hear so many stories about it no bring safe too.

Although I didn't mc until I was meant to be 12 and half weeks nothing ever developed within the sac so should have mc at 5-6 weeks! I see it in the exact same way as u because baby near had a heartbeat it never died. Still find it hard sometime thinking I should be over 13 weeks now and in tri 2, instead I'm way back at the beginning waiting!

Really hope u don't have to wait to long to get ur bfp xx