Help need surprise third and getting married!

Suprisethird

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Hi, I have just joined so I have no idea if this is the correct place to post.
I have just found out I am expecting my third baby, I have a 14 yr old and a 8 yr old, I also have a coil fitted and only half a right ovary left due to a dermoid cyst and a simple cyst, so god know how I got pregnant, my doctor says its a miracle! The thing is I am getting married in November to my partner of 16 yrs, I have the wedding dress, fits me perfectly, all paid for and now I will be 13 weeks pregnant on my wedding day! I really can't remember how much weight I put on or how big my belly got, I feel gutted at the timing of it all! I got pregnant in2010 with the coil in but had to have a termination due to a dermoid cyst at the same time, so they tried the pill on me due to my body getting pregnant withthecoil, however last September I got a blood clot in my lung due to the pill, so I can't go on that, in may this year I have my left ovary removed due to a simple cyst of 8cm and at the same time had the marina coil put it as its ment to stop you ovulating, so I could minimise the risk ofgettinganother cyst on remain half ovary, however now I find my self 5 weeks pregnant, I have had hcg levels taken as the risk of eptopic and they tripled in two days, so looks ok so far and having a scan on30th to see where coil is and to make sure pregnancy n right place! Can I still try and lose weight for my wedding or do I just accept my dress won't fit ! I am so full of questions at the moment, I also have to find out if I have a case against hospital because there is nowhere i my notes about the mirena coil being put in so no follow up appointment made to check if still there after first period , doctors say they only have notes about my operation no mention of the coil that's was fitted, I hope someone evading this will make sense of some of this, typing on my iPad so loads of spelling mistakes sorry
 
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Firstly hunni, congrats on the wedding and baby.
As for your dress you can still slim down a little just be sensible how you do it because of the baby. I'm sorry to hear of your losses, and I hope its different this time.
I have just had my third (3 weeks ago) and i'm getting married in november too...I got my dress whilst pregnant in hopes of slimming down for it. Which i hope i will.
Your dress will fit you prefectly come the day, and worst case sinreo is it gets altered around the midrift either that or by spandex pants....i have just incase. good luck x x x
 

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