Help me please

[Kitten]

Just signed up here because i need some advice.
I've not had a missed period as of yet but i did come on a day late earlya this month. I look a little bigger than usual around the hips and i do kep getting fluttery feelings in my stomach.
I keep looking on websites and they all say that you ca't have periods while you are pregnant. My auntie on the other hand had her periods untill she was 5 month gone.
I'm getting rather worried as i cant go and get a test till tomorrow.

What do you guys think to this??

 

[Mervs Mum]

Welcome to the forum

The only real way to know is to test hun.

Good luck - Hope you get the rest you're after

 

[Kitten]

Thanks.

I know i need to get a test so i am going to get one tomorrow. I am so nervious. I have never been in this situation before. I noticed this afternoon that my stomache looked a little bigger than usual. I didn't really think anything of it till my sister noticed that i looked a little bigger than usual. I mean i am a size 10 and usually have a flat stomache

 

[Mervs Mum]

Bloating often happens early on so it could be.

Are you TTC?

 

[Kitten]

No i wasnt TTC.
I am kinda hoping that i am. Hardest thing will be explaining to my parents. My Mum keeps saying she doesnt want to be a nan yet.

 

[Mervs Mum]

How does your partner feel about it?

 

[Kitten]

He has yet to find out that i am feeling like this. He is at work at the moment and i dont fany texting him and worrying him. I would rather out and then let him know. Is that wrong?

 

[Mervs Mum]

No not at all. Do you think he'll be pleased too if you are?

 

[Kitten]

Tbh i'm not sure how he will feel about it. Hes 19 years older than me. i hope i it comes back possitive he will be happy.

 

[Mervs Mum]

Has he got any children already? Do you mind my asking how old you are hun? Hey if you are it might be a shock but you know these things happen for a reason sometimes.

 

[Kitten]

i'm 20
Yea he has two kids from a pevious relationship. I will admit i am crazy about him and i really think that he's the guy that i want to spend the rest of my life with him

 

[Mervs Mum]

Oh I do hope it works out for you both. Why dont you talk to him tonight when he gets home? Maybe he'll surprise you

 

[Blob]

Hey good luck...i hope that he's exited, let us know when you've tested

 

[Sam's Mum]

Just wanted to wish you luck when you do test ...and welcome to the forum

 

[Kitten]

Thanks guys. Its great being able to talk to you lot. I mean i can't talk to the people i usually would because i dont want people to know untill i have found out and the bf knows. i just dont think it would be right for other people to find out before him

 

[Mamafy]

Good luck in testing

Welcome to Pregnancy Forum

 

[Mervs Mum]

Of course. Talk away. We'll be here what ever the news and what ever his reaction.

Good luck today

 

[ema-lou24]

hope things go ok and you get the result your after.
i hate ppl who judge other.... my mother is the worst for it.

as long a u and ure partner are happy, thats all that matters.

let us know how u get on x

 

[mrsH2009]

Good luck really hope you got the result and reaction you wished for

 

[possiblemum!]

Good luck Kitten, let us know how you get on. I'm new here too so don't quite have the wisdom needed to help but wishing you lots of luck for the result you're after xx