parislove
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Well I never thought I would be joining a pregnancy group again. Its been 13 years since I had my one and only child, and it was the worse time of my life. After vomiting pretty much all the way through and then developing pre-eclampsia I spent 4 weeks in hospital BEFORE I even had my baby. He was delivered by c section and weighted in at 2lb 12oz. It put me off having children for life. My son turned 13 two weeks ago and we were at a family BBQ and someone asked me will you have anymore, my reply was 'absolutely no chance'. Little did I know that I was already pregnant. Me and my sons dad split up not long after he was born, he turned out to be a complete $&@% and had gambled all our savings away while I lay ill in hospital. I met my now husband two years later and he has no children of his own but has beeen the best dad to my son. We decided 4 years ago to try for a baby, but after a year of tears and heartache we gave up, it was causing to much stress, my periods were none existant and according to my husbands doctor he was firing blanks! We excepted it and we'd actually become quite smug with ourselves that we were able to do things that our friends were very much restricted in , as most were only just having babies while our boy was pretty much self sufficient now. So you can understand our shock at discovering only last Thursday that we are going to be parents again! I cried, then panicked, then did another test. Now Im over joyed my circumstances are so much better now, execpt I was only 20 first time round I'm 33 now but I feel amazing , I can't stop eating which was the total opposite from before. We have no idea how far I am because my periods were pretty m6ch none existant so Im having a scan next week. I have so many questions to ask you all so I apologise in advance.
I hope you have a much smoother pregnancy this time round 
