Hayden is freaking me right out

[fran_23]

Hey i can't remember if i ever posted about a few strange things Hayden has said before about "Grandad Jim" Stewarts dad died a year before Hayden was born and he has come out with some stuff before about Grandad Jim taking his dummy etc..i cant explain that as we never talk about him or refer to him as that name...but that didn't freak me out that much as i felt like it was just his grandad coming to see him and it was not malicious! Anyway the last few weeks Hayden has been saying stuff like "that women just shut the door" and i figured as he is 2 he was just talking nonsense and i ignored it but earlier today i went in my bedroom to get my phone and heard a massive crash and he started screaming so i ran to get him and his lip was bleeding i thought he just fell off his ride on he was playing on at the time..when he calmed down i was saying aww what happened to Hayden and he said "i banged and crashed, the woman pushed me" when i try and question him he just says "that woman made me crash and i hurt my mouth" its starting to freak me out..he talks about this woman more and more...does anyone elses kids do this? is it just a normal toddler thing? i

 

[Squiglet]

Tia did and to some extent still does these things. She talks about her life before this one on the Rainbow planet and its so detailed.. and how she fell to earth through a hole in the ground... and how grandma young looks after her. My dads really sceptical... but a while ago he was alone with Tia and he swears he felt something push past him... he said to Tia if she felt that cold breeze and she said "Thats OK grandpa its just great grandma." really freaked him out.

She slowly reduced the amount of times she mentioned these things at around 6 or 7 and now she only mentions things rarely. But at 3/4 it was at its height.

 

[fran_23]

Wow..thats amazing!! see i don't mind if he talks about his grandad because its obvious he would want to see his grandson and look over him. But i would like to know who this woman is and if she really exists or if it is his imagination..i can't see an inclination for a 2 yr old to make these things up and he is saying stuff like it more and more frequently.
I would be amazed if he said things like Tia did..thats really mind blowing stuff!!

 

[pilkers]

sh*t that would really freak me out too

 

[mummykay]

ooo er, thatd freak me out too fran lol

 

[jennifer1981]

Stuff like that really spooks me out

 

[CoreysMummy]

Oooh that is spooky... do you know who was in that flat before you!?

Eakkk

 

[fran_23]

yeah this flat is quite new and my friends mum has lived opposite me for over 20 years so i know that there hasn't been any deaths in here or anything, i have seen something here once and apart from that nothing at all or no presence feeling so it must be a relative as far as i am concerned i do believe in ghosts but i am open minded so i wouls always try to come up with a "scientific" explanation first and foremost..it could be a lively imagination to be fair but not the stuff about his grandad because that is something he couldn't have possibly made up or overheard. He seems a bit too young to be making up imaginary friends and such like IMO but who knows..he has such good speech for a two yr old that he could just be saying any old thing he doesnt understand IYKWIM!

 

[maria1976]

bloody hell bet your freaked

 

[DebbieM]

Kids are very open minded. After my Mum died, my very young cousin (around 3 at the time) was always talking about "Bella" (my Mum was called Linda and he called her Bella) and he'd say things about her and say he could see her and my Grandad.

Now... my sister has 3 boys and a few occasions she has been freaked out by them staring into space and smiling at something. Luke has done the same thing a few times... talking to "nothing". I swear it's my Mum...

 

[keli]

Yep that would def freak me out

 

[Sage]

There was a boy in the nursery that i work at that had, what we think was an imaginary friend called Lily last year. He started doing it just before he moved to preschool so he was nearly 3. At first his parents were really worried as they literally thought he was going mad. On one occasion they said he'd screamed whilst playing in the garden and he was pointing at the roof saying 'quick mummy, daddy she's up there, get her down' He was frantic and Mum and Dad just didnt no what to do. It resulted in Dad having to climb on a ladder and pretend to bring Lily down. He'd save his food and say it was for Lily, have arguments with her, tell his parents that Lily told him to do stuff. it was a daily occurrence.

He did all sorts of strange stuff in the nursery to and there was never an explanation as to where and why he decided to require an imaginary friend. I went on maternity leave and hes left for state nursery now so im not sure if he grew out of it or just stopped or even still 'sees' Lily. I think its very interesting...but i little spooky!

 

[MissThing]

A few times, when I was playing/feeding/dressing Dan I noticed that he stares at something past me, smiles and is trying to give his toys to that nothing behind my back. Really creepy