Hate feeling guilty when i talk to sil

[redbear]

my brother and sister in law have been ttc for a couple of years they have a 10 year old but want another baby. the first time i conceved i was fine talking to her as we had been trying a year ourselves but this time getting the suprise pregnancy so quick i can't help but feel guilty when she mention the pregnancy she will start telling me how they can't get pregnant and i feel so guilty but i don't want to leave her out as she is a friend. i just can't be excited infront of her but don't want to seem ungrateful. its so hard to know what's best to not upset her!

 

[winnie89]

hun i felt exactly the same with my sil last year when she got pregnant before me i was moody and horrible towards her, it'll get easier over time, has she been definatley told she cant have kids, because if you stress over ttc it wont happen, me and hubby were trying for 2+ years and we stopped and a few months later i fell pregnant. hope things get better soon x

 

[redbear]

no she hasn't been told just my brothers sperm test wasn't good she isn't nasty but i can tell she is gutted. i wish they can catch on soon so she can be happier xx

 

[winnie89]

as long as they havent said its definatley not possible there is always a chance after all they already have 1 kid. x