kirlou
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I actaully feel heartbroken!
Just got back from my latest dr appointment (had a good old moan to the practice manager about our traetment by drs so far) and we saw the practice manager who was really lovely and so understanding, but as nice as she was she broke heart!
She said that there is a chance albeit very small that our son was a fluke.
She double checked my bloods and they were fine and is arranging my oh tests but the next thing she said actually had me choking back tears, she said they can give me all the tests but if anything comes up i cant have any traetment not even drugs cos my son was concieved natrually! She then asked if we had thought about fostering. I was lost for words and tbh i still am.
I feel so awful that i feel this way as i know there are so many couples with no children that need the funding for thr treatments but that doesnt stop it from hurting! I know i should be greatful that i have my son and dont get me wrong i love him with all my heart but i dont feel complete with only one child and i dont feel like i will ever be the person that i am meant to be until i have a daughter, I know that some of you might think me ungreatful but i really cannot explain what having a baby girl means to me.
Im sorry to go on i just dont feel like i can keep going now, I actually want to curl in a ball and sob until i cant sob anymore and until there are no tears left.
Just got back from my latest dr appointment (had a good old moan to the practice manager about our traetment by drs so far) and we saw the practice manager who was really lovely and so understanding, but as nice as she was she broke heart!
She said that there is a chance albeit very small that our son was a fluke.
She double checked my bloods and they were fine and is arranging my oh tests but the next thing she said actually had me choking back tears, she said they can give me all the tests but if anything comes up i cant have any traetment not even drugs cos my son was concieved natrually! She then asked if we had thought about fostering. I was lost for words and tbh i still am.
I feel so awful that i feel this way as i know there are so many couples with no children that need the funding for thr treatments but that doesnt stop it from hurting! I know i should be greatful that i have my son and dont get me wrong i love him with all my heart but i dont feel complete with only one child and i dont feel like i will ever be the person that i am meant to be until i have a daughter, I know that some of you might think me ungreatful but i really cannot explain what having a baby girl means to me.
Im sorry to go on i just dont feel like i can keep going now, I actually want to curl in a ball and sob until i cant sob anymore and until there are no tears left.