Got my Results - Sorta :S

[jenna]

OK so first of all the urine test was negative.

That doesnt mean im not pregnant. I could have 'missed the surg' and be quite far on. Or i could be 'starting a new pregnancy'.

He examined my tummy which was very embaresing but said he couldnt feel my uterus.

He tried calling the EPU where i had my scan 3 times and couldnt get any one to tell him what went on. They said 'the results were normal' so he said 'normal what? pregnant or not pregnant? thats what i want to find out' and they said 'we dont know'!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! WTF????


So he said he will call back today/tomorow and investigate why they dont know and what my results actually were. He wants me to go for a scan if it was ++ last time or if they dont know just incase. He said since weve had unprotected sex then obviestly theres no reason why i couldnt be pregnant. But all they can do is wait and try and find the results of my old urine/scan. So i dont know how to feel, im extremly tired and have a sore throat today. Just want to curl up and cry

He said theres no need to worry, im young and healthy and so on. But im going to ask why my cycles are so long and what i can do to safely shorten them next time i go. We were in ther for 40mins and he had to ask another GP for advice and look on google too every ones totally baffled! just our luck eh!

 

[Becs]

Jenna you're a medical mystery!! I'm sorry to read that you are having to endure yet more frustration. I hope you hear more today!!

 

[charli]

thats strange so u had a scan??? did u not see the screen?? were there not explaining as they did it i would not of left till they said either way they cant just say we dont know surely xx

 

[tots hope]

Massive massive coming your way

Im not really sure what to say, lots of hugs coming your way though x x x

 

[jenna]

Even though he was really nice i feel totally let down. Its easy to say 'its just a 70 day cycle itll settle down' but when your desperatly trying for a baby its a life time to wait, especially when every day passes and it seems less and less likly that your pregnant from that cycle anyway.
Im sick of 41 day cycles but this is rediculas! Surely it has to get to a certain point where its dangerous not to bleed? Im more upset that i havnt come on yet than the fact im not pregnant, i just want to get on with the next cycle now. Most people only have to wait 28 days which is nothing really.

 

[jenna]

thats strange so u had a scan??? did u not see the screen?? were there not explaining as they did it i would not of left till they said either way they cant just say we dont know surely xx

I had a scan in june/july and they said id had a m/c and i needed to do a urine sample to check for ectopic. I handed it in a week later and the midwife didnt have a clue what i was on about but took my details and said shed get back to me. Which they never did. They didnt even tell my doctors what had happend. So my doctor is now trying to find out what my urine results were and wether there were something on the scan that they didnt tell me or wether it was just too early to see anything.

 

[gemmap27]

Hey hun!
I know where your coming from with the long cycles! I have PCOS and before i got PG my cyclces were all over the palce especially since my m/c. I had average cycles of 40 days ( sometimes 60 or 90) and it seemed I was always waiting!
Hopefully now your seeing the doc things will get better!

 

[tots hope]

I don't understand why they can't just send you for a scan - surely that would tell you one way or the other? Guess its the NHS being annoying again. I honestly can't understand what you must be going through, maybe take the day off and do nothing - might make you feel a little better and im sure your work would understand x

 

[poppy160]

Awww Jenna Must be so frustrating that you can't get an answer to anything It's really shoddy that you weren't informed of any results of your scan, it's such a sensitive subject. The hospitals are supposed to write up the results in a letter and send it to your GP so they can discuss it with you, those results stay in your hospital notes and your GP file for life to avoid things such as this happening ARGH the NHS can be so annoying sometimes..

 

[jenna]

the doctor wanted to send me for a scan but couldnt get through to the EPU for ages and since they didnt know what happend last time he probably thought it would be a waste of time. I thought they were ok but now i think there useless!!

Plus i dont think i can face it again. Last time i had to walk down corriders with people laughing and talking about the babies on the screens. It was awful especially since they had just told me id had a m/c. Feel such an arse, im sure it wasnt nice for them seeing me upset on there special day.

 

[Little miss pink]

Oh FFS even more frustration for you hun, i'm so sorry your having to go through more!!



My cycle is lingering on too, but there is absolutely no hope of me being pregnant though because my temps have been fairly consistent.

I really hope this frustration ends for you soon Jenna!



Bex

 

[sarah12]

xx

 

[Squiglet]

Plus i dont think i can face it again. Last time i had to walk down corriders with people laughing and talking about the babies on the screens. It was awful especially since they had just told me id had a m/c. Feel such an arse, im sure it wasnt nice for them seeing me upset on there special day.

I think that if I saw someone in your state after being told you'd had a miscarriage and I was having a scan..It would put things into perspective.... That comment just proves what a lovely person you are...and how much you deserve to be pregnant... I'm not surprised why you don't want to go through that again. It's a really painful experience.

I'm really sorry it was... not negative, but blank news from the GP... It's much easier to have a yes/no answer than a Dunno..

I really, really hope that you are pregnant, or that they start looking into why your cycles are so long at least then you can start trying with vigour...

Big hugs hun....

 

[freepie]

Hi Jenna,

So sorry to hear this...are you sure you cant got hrough with having a scan? Would let you know one way or the other....?

lots of hugs

 

[caz86]

hey jen how far gone was u when they told u that u had a m/c??

 

[caz86]

oh and do u have an msn address??

 

[jenna]

oh and do u have an msn address??

iv pm'd you hun

 

[babydust]

i know what you meen about going back to that scan place and walking along the corridor and seeing people walking out with their scan pics, i have been in both sides of this and just remember that although it might not be now but one day very soon you will be walking down that corridor with your oh and your scan pic. when i went for my scan and got the bad news i was asked if i wanted to go out the 'back door' this annoyed me more than anything
You are going to have to face it again some day, it might be difficult but cant be any worse than what you have been through the past few months, so you know you can cope with it.

 

[x-kirsty-x]

Oh Jenna, I so wish things were simpler for you. You deserve to be pregnant so much, I just want to grab you and give you a big hug

 

[Flick]

I wish they had been able to give you some news - sometimes not knowing is worse than knowing ......... I hope and pray everything works out for you, Jenna