Getting stroppy

[BabyBrain]

I've got really snappy the last few days. I've got so much on my mind and can't seem to deal with it all at once. I've got Albert's cardiology appt to worry about, my cancer specialist to worry about, the FIL has told us he doesn't want us here with 2 young children, the council is not guaranteed to help us even with the HV on our side, my Dad's facing his 4th lot of secondary cancer, we've got no money and everything seems to be going to shit.

And OH woke me up at 5am feeling fruity (then fell asleep without accomplishing anything), Albert slept til 7 so I missed 2 more hours of sleep.

And am trying to remain as calm as possible so I don't unsettle the baby. I so wish I could just go out and get horribly drunk!

Apart from that my day sucks lol xxxxxxxx

 

[Terri1884]

Oh no! Sounds like u need something to cheer u up! Hope tomorrow is a better day 4 u!

 

[ChrissieCool]

Hugzzzz hun, hope all goes well with all the tests xxx

 

[Nic36]

Awww... Big hugs.... Xx. Sounds like you've got more than your fair share of things to think about at the moment. Hope the appointments go well. Have you got dates for them yet? X

 

[BabyBrain]

Albert's is a week on Monday, don't have a date for mine yet

Been to the loo and think af may be on it's way soon, explains my mood lol

 

[BellaRiven]

Hope it gets better soon for you honey x x x

 

[Nic36]

Albert's is a week on Monday, don't have a date for mine yet

Been to the loo and think af may be on it's way soon, explains my mood lol

Sometimes the waiting is the hardest part... It's easy to start overthinking and worrying. Fingers crossed all will go well for you both. Xx

 

[leannesxb]

darling give us a text if you feel crappy. big hugs and kisses. xxxxxxxxx

 

[pinkyprincess]

Welcome to my world! It's so hard having a baby in a small space totally sympathise. The HA won't do anything until he's one

When I was pregnant we were living in a studio flat with no room for a cot! My OH is an engineer and did a CAD drawing of the flat and how little space we had and took it to the local MP who wrote to the council and demanded we were moved. They did to a 1 bed which is significantly bigger (granted not a 2 bed) its worth looking up how much space a person can legally have against how big the house is. Just nag and fight you'll get there. If you ever want to moan about it feel free to PM me as I've been there/going through it.

 

[My1stBaby]

oh BB sorry you're feeling so shit!!

have you thought about presenting as homeless? get your parents to write you a letter of eviction, take that to the council and they have to house you as you have a baby. you'd only get a 1 bed though obvs.

so sorry to hear about your dad fingers crossed he gets better soon. get a babysitter and go out and get drunk- its done me the world of good lol !!

were all here for you to rant, so rant away if you need to. loads of love xxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[BabyBrain]

have you thought about presenting as homeless? get your parents to write you a letter of eviction, take that to the council and they have to house you as you have a baby. you'd only get a 1 bed though obvs.

FIL tried to evict us before Christmas, our council do bed and breakfast accommodation......in the middle of London . There's no emergency housing here so Albert and me would get sent to b&b in Tower Hamlets or somewhere (which I would have to pay for, which I wouldn't mind but it would leave me no money to get over here) and OH would have to sort himself out