Gave in and feeling guilty

[babyblonde]

Well, despite trying to be good we gave in to our (ahem) urges this afternoon. Feeling a bit guilty now.

Please tell me it's normal to feel like this! I'm sure everything is fine, but can't help feeling a little bad.

 

[Laurababs]

Awww hun, you've done great to last this long!! and its 100% normal!

You'll be fine

 

[babyblonde]

Thanks hun - I'm sure everything is fine. I think it's just that I started bleeding last time right after we had sex (but we know that didn't actually cause the m/c as it turned out we'd given a negative urine sample to the doctor 2 days before) so there is a bit of a guilt factor attached.

 

[Jaded Diamond]

We felt guilty and slightly uncomfortable the first time, it was the fear of making something go wrong.
And afterwards i keep checking for spotting but i haven't had any.
I also commend you both for holding out so long!!
xx

 

[babyblonde]

Thanks. Think as we normally average about 3 times a week we've done pretty well so far!

Having discussed it we'll probably wait til after the scan now before doing anything again...that's our story and we're sticking to it.....

 

[Mummy Rich]

I still feel guilty now hun

but they do say its safe as long as you're not too rough

 

[babyblonde]

I did say that I probably put more effort into picking up a tub of paint in homebase this morning

Glad others have felt like this too - don't feel like a total nutter now!

 

[buddabun]

PMSL "lie there and think of england"

Don't feel too bad hon. It's so hard when you've had previous problems but realistically how bad is sex likely to be. I just think of all those people that shag like ferrets (or eat currys or drink wine) before they find out they're pregnant...

Don't feel too guilty!!! I am in no fit state to suffer any repetitive movement at the mo but when I am we will be extra careful too I'm sure

 

[kalia]

Your body will be more receptive if it is used to his sperm - especially through oral. 'Tis true. But you might not want to tell him that I also think that research might technically have been for TTC.

 

[KikoDinoGirl]

especially through oral.

Gosh that's not going to help morning sickness is it!

 

[Jade89]

We had rumpy pumpy (haha what a word) at 9 ish weeks, day before my first scan and baby was fine on the scan, even though 3cm long thumper was there kicking away! Don't worry about it we have had it quite a lot since my scan too

 

[samandbump]

if this makes you feel any better i started bleeding with
the baby i m/c after sex, and went on to have another pregnancy
and had sex quite early on and everything was fine!!!
my baby will be 1 on friday, so try not to feel guilty

 

[JayK2387]

me and my oh have sexed all the way through i was told by the middy not to change things just to take it easy!?

I bled really bad at 16 weeks right after sex and we were on hols in Turkey... I was terrified but we got the doppler out and she was fine.

I can understand why people wouldnt want to though... My OH is just a nymph - does get really annoying when all you wanna do is sleep lol.

xxx