First post and hoping third time lucky

[Bugsy]

Hi all.

I've joined as I'm nearly 6 weeks pregnant and this is my third attempt in the last 12 months.

I had the first miscarriage before I realised I was pregnant then second one at about 7-8 weeks so I'm quite nervous! Haven't really told anyone yet so would be great to get talking to some of you who understand!

Got a scan next week as when I lost my second one I had a very sympathetic doctor who put on my notes next time I try I can come in.

Days are going very slow and just wishing December away to hopefully get to 12 weeks in Janaury.

Sorry for long first post!

 

[kaz1983]

Firstly sorry for your losses its heartbreaking ive been through it once so cant imagine twice

Secondly congrats and i completely understand the nerves im still scared sometimes an im nearly 27weeks

Try an keep occupied thats how i got through to my scans and midwife appointments xx

 

[Bugsy]

Thank you for your reply

I'm trying to get busy and I am feeling pregnant - so I'm hoping this is a good sign.

Trying not to get my hopes up but staying positive! It's a bit of a mind field lol

x

 

[Eryinera]

Good luck hun it's hard after a mc to stay positive and not worry. We are all here though and a lot of have been where you are now. Good luck hun wish you a speedy tri 1.

 

[Cherrybelly]

Good luck! I had two losses before I had my daughter. I was so scared in that pregnancy that I paid for an early scan! I don't trust my body as I had symptoms up to my mmc at 11w! I'm thinking of having an early scan this time too as all the fears are back! Stay positive and you'll get through it, my daughter is proof that there's hope after two losses xxx

 

[Bugsy]

Thanks Cherrybelly for your message.

Luckily the hospital are willing to scan me next week because I've had two miscarriages before.

However last time when I started spotting went to A&E and had a scan - baby was fine and doctors said no problems. Within 12 hours I'd had a miscarriage.

Hence - I'm wishing time away to try and get to 12 weeks

 

[Blueclass]

Hey congratulations and sorry about ur previous losses. Your pregnant ho exciting yet scary I mc before this pregnancy and i'm 12 weeks tomorrow. Not really had many symptoms so I'm constantly worried. I paid for a private scan 2 weeks back and had a epu one at 7 weeks as I had pains. Your not alone in worrying and we all feel scared I think even of we have not experienced a loss. Fingers crossed for you. X

 

[love87]

congratulations. hope you have a happy and healthy pregnancy. x

 

[Bugsy]

Thank you all for your kind words.

I think my biggest fear at the moment is a can feel things in my stomach. It's not a pain / ache - I can't really explain it. I tried to google if this was normal but just get a load of horror stories.

So are funny feelings in the stomach normal? It's not like the pain I had on my two previous miscarriages

 

[MelC2011]

Welcome honey!
So sorry to hear of your previous loses... really hoping its third time lucky for you xx