Feeling sorry for myself

[Topsy]

Sorry just really need to have a moan, don't get me wrong this baby is very much planned and wanted but I'm just not enjoying my pregnancy so far. I'm only 7 weeks and need to go for another scan on Monday as in my last scan at 6 weeks They couldnt see a heartbeat so I feel like I'm in limbo but the nausea is what is really getting to me. I had this with my 3 year old and probably worse as I lost a lot of weight and became very ill but I was signed off worked and could just stay in bed all day. I haven't got the option of not working at the moment and I've got to be there for my 3 year old but I just feel so sick 24/7 and feeling really low 😩

 

[CoolNoMore]

I am so happy and glad to be pregnant! I am so not enjoying pregnancy!

I hear you loud and clear, Amy. Things have perked up for me now that I'm in tri 2, and it does for many women, so hold to that flicker of hope. Having said that, I've developed an anal fissure, and there's nothong quite like a bleeding bum to make you feel unsexy. Yay, pregnancy!


I'm sorry about all the work issues though, that's really tough. You can't do what you can't do though, so don't beat yourself up about it. Lie on the sofa a develop some game that involves your toddler feeding you chocolate...or something you can stomach. Salt and vinegar crisps were the only thing I could happily eat for about two weeks, that was a weird time.

I don't know if any of this is helpful, but I do hope you work out a way of coping until it gets better.

 

[ClaireDoll]

Just wanted to say your not alone. This baby was very much planned and we worked hard to get this far with previous losses, but omg am I hating pregnancy so far! I'm just going on 10 weeks, I hope to God the sickness eases soon. I will openly say I'm struggling to cope, and I don't have a 3 year old to look after, just a dog and a lazy ass husband , so I fully sympathise. Also with work, I don't have the option to be off as I'm self employed and the business would be done for. All fingers crossed for your next scan and I suppose you could take comfort in the fact they say if your suffering nausea etc it's a good sign of a healthy pregnancy.

 

[sazza1510]

Amy our due dates are together mine is 30th sep and also have a 3yr old daughter causing me issues. I was so ill with her and was off work from wk5 to wk17 with sickness this time its worse she only goes preschool wed-fri so at home today she is getting stroppy because Mummy wont play like usual. I hated being pregnant last time and feeling nasty at moment too not good....all the sympathy in the world for you.

 

[Topsy]

I feel awful to as my little one is not getting all my attention and having to spend a lot of time indoors when we normally go to places like the park etc. I've had another scan and they could see heartbeat and everything looks ok just wish the nausea would ease up now �� Xx

 

[Hayley M]

My sickness has easied but I feel so low in mood.. This baby was very much planned but I can't shift the feeling of being low.. I'm hoping it's just the hormones and it will improve. I'm around 9 weeks and counting down the days until my scan on the 7.3.17. X

 

[sazza1510]

Im in bed feeling rubbish managed to convince my 3yr old to come lay down with me.

 

[Topsy]

I've started taking b6 vitamins and the nausea has defiantly got a lot better the last 2 days. I've bee able to leave the house and eat a bit more than normal which has lifted my mood ab it. How is everyone else getting on? Xx