Feeling pretty low at moment......

[happy-chick]

 

[breezee1984]

just remember, yur angle is in a better place than this earth, and (this is how i found comfort , not sure if it helps?) but i realize my angels are much happier than I and i wouldnt want it any other way

 

[jenna]

so sorry hun. Its my EDD for my 1st m/c this month too (our anniversary 29/09). I can understand how you feel, no matter how many children you have itll never take away the pain of a m/c hope you feel better soon

 

[fothers]

I felt awful around the time in May when it was my EDD, I know what you mean

 

[Becs]

Aww Happy_chick

 

[tots hope]

 

[feenix]

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[lisa&alex]

HC *Hugs*

I don't know if it would help you any, but each year on the anniversary of what would have been my LO's birthday, I light a candle and buy some white roses which i have in the house. It helps me to remember her that way, and although its a sad time, it also makes me smile. Its ok to grieve, its ok to feel sad and its ok to remember. Do whatever you need to do to make it easier .
Thinking of you and all who have lost.
love Julie
xxx

how beautiful!, hope you let your feelings out hun, dont lock them up, i find writting a letter often helps me when i feel sad/angry etc, i often talk a lot of rubbish, even if its to a person, i hardly ever send them, i usually read through it through tears then rip it up or burn it...helps to deal and rid my feelings, xx

 

[Tiffy]

Happy_chick, I just want you to know I think you're a lovely person, and I enjoy reading all your posts. We are here for you, and I'm sorry for your loss. Truly sorry.

 

[babydust]

my due date was last month and a freind of the family was same stage of pregnancy as me and i got a call to say she had a little girl, i felt soo sad thinking what would have been but its something that will always make you feel sad even years to come when you think back at what age they would have been now.

 

[mum2be?]

Hunny done be sill you can post here when ever you feel like,

anyoen that has suffered a m/c will understand where you are comming from i think we all think about our EDD.

 

[x Naomi x]

I think its a really good idea to do something in memory of your baby on what would have been their due date, my friends mum lost her first baby and even now 40 years later she will do something on that day,

Whether your children are with you or in spirit, you of course will love and cherish them so same xxx

 

[katyk]

Yes it's nasty when anniversaries and special dates are coming up. Just think, hopefully one day you will be remembering this day with your new LO

Can your OH do something with you to remember/ have you talked to him about how you feel?

 

[happy-chick]

Thank you everyone for your lovely comments, I think we will do something special on that day even if its only to light a candle in remembrance.

Thanks again

 

[Melly+2]

Hun im here if you need me

 

[Steelgoddess]

Hon im sorry you are feeling low and no you are not silly and your not moaning!!!

I agree about doing something nice and sounds like a positive way to remember your baby.

Also I hope you don;t mind me mentioning but sometimes I imagine my lost one looking out for me and this one...

Big hugs to you...

xxx

 

[tracey 2]

ah hun big hugs

i can understand how your feeling approaching your DD is i know very hard, all these emotions come at you at once and i remember sitting thinking why do i feel like this again i really didnt think it would hit me so hard, you have been through a lot but you are a strong women with a lovely little girl on the way.

like Lisa, mentioned i still write letters to my angels with all my feelings and then throw them away, it helps me anyway. Just doing something small on your angels DD will help if you want to.

You know im always here for you hun anytime give me a shout or a ring if you ever want to talk anytime

 

[happy-chick]

Thank you all for your lovely words and comments, I really appreciate it & need it right now as I kinda feel like I'm falling to pieces again! Ive had a tough few days but trying to stay positive.

 

[Ginnymarie]

Awh Jo

you have been a great friend to me....we m/c around the same time but you had the strength to help me through some dark dark days...for that i will never forget....i too feel the loss even tho im pregnant again, msm me when I am on....although im not on as much as normal due to morning sickness or rather all day sickness il try when im feeling ok
take care hun andhope you feel better soon xx

 

[tracey 2]

hun, you know im here for you anytime so if you ever need to talk you know where i am,

it will get easier hun i promise you, just send you little message now