feelin down today :(

[Jaxx01]

Sooooo...its been over 5 weeks now since my pig of an ex left and do you know how much ive heard off him?? Nothing not even a reply to the text telling him when I was having a scan...not even asking how the scan went Sweet F.A

I cannot believe that after everything he can be this harsh Ive found out he's on a dating website and his best mate (a girl) text me yesterday to ask how I am...

I got all upset because I have a feeling he may have asked her to find out how the baby is????

Im feeling really upset at the moment...hormones up the creek aswell which dont help..

Not one part of me wants him back, but I dont want to do this alone I knw i wont be alone as such as I have family BUT it's just not the same

Sorry for the rant...it's just Ive got no one else to talk to right now xx

 

[missb]

BIg hugs from me, I havnt got an good advice but I hope things work out for you. Its not fair for you to be treated like that he couldnt even text you!! I would surround myself with friends and family and get as much support as you need. HUGSSS xxxxx

 

[ceris]

aw hon, if he hasn't got the balls to even text, let alone ring then your baby does not not need him! baby needs a strong mum, and family to surround it with love... not a weak father who gets his friend to text....
if you really dont want him back, then think of it in the way that you have everything you need from him... his swimmers and concentrate on keeping you and baby fit and healthy....
we are all here for you, so rant away!!
i think you are incredible to put up with all that!

xxx

 

[Jaxx01]

Awww thanks girls...most days Im fine but today I just seem to be feeling down about it think it's combination of being tired, the place is a mess cos I just dont have the energy to do much at the mo and Im feeling a bit lonely xx

 

[ceris]

the tidying up will still be there tomorrow...
put feet up, have a bubble bath...
anything... just chill out watch a daft film and leave tidying and housework till you are in the mood!!

xxx

 

[Jaxx01]

Im running a bath as we speak lol its my fave thing to do at the moment bath and magazine xx

 

[ceris]

with you on that one!!!
only thing missing is the glass of wine!! (but never mind !!!)
light the candles and shut off for an hour!

 

[positivity :)]

ah hunny, really sorry to read this!! i was bought up by my mum and family mainly i think i turned out ok!! stay strong sweetie and we will all get you thru the next 8 months on here

xxx

 

[1986princess]

so sorry ur ex being such a c**k! it must be so hard for u with all the hormones, cant believe he cant pick up the phone to check. ur better off without him by the sounds of things. your in the right place if u want to talk xxx

 

[Princess81]

You are never alone, you always have us your baby will be more than happy with you as a mummy without him there, you'll be the stronger person for it xx

 

[ForestLas80]

Hun, he sounds like a nightmare and a negative influence in your life. You are so strong and don't need him and are such the better person, he sounds very immature and selfish. I wouldn't text him again or reply to his bestmate, if he makes effort that's a different thing but he is being crap at the moment, u r better off without him. U will be a fab mummy and your baby will be loved so much by you and your family and friends, take care of u and baby and dong let him get u down xxx

 

[08Princess]

My babys daddy doesn't seem too bothered either.

I get the occasional text late at night like 'u ok?' but I think its really a booty call.

I have taught myself to expect nothing from men and to rely on myself and my wonderful family.

Of course it hurts that the daddies seem not to care but your munchkin has you and thats the most important thing

I have days when I could cry all day and worry about everything - can't get the risk of Downs out of my head atm - and other days I just feel so happy and blessed to be pregnant.

I want to focus on the positive and for the love of my baby thats what I'm gonna do.

Sod him hun! Its his loss and hes showing his true colours.

When I feel lonley I touch my tummy and talk to my baby and then I know that we're not alone cos we have each other

TC.

x x