feel a bit down sorry a moan coming on

[sam27]

sorry to moan i know that i shouldnt as its only are 1st month at this but i was hopeful when i had the symptoms and now i dont feel anything other than very very slightly sore bbs! and thats probably from me prodding them to see if they are sore!

i know its early but i did a first respnse this morning i dont know why as i knew it would be a BFN!!!

i just now want to have af come so i can start again!

sorry its just a little rant! i really thought i was pg when i was feeling so ill

sam xxx

 

[Storm.]

hey its ok to moan, its what we are here for

I know what you mean abut the sore boobs, hubby asked me once, coz they gonna be boody sore the amoint you poke to see if they really are sore or u just imagining it

whens af due??

xxx

 

[sam27]

thanks for that af is due on the 18th so i know its early and am being silly really

 

[Storm.]

your not beng silly at all, I know the frustration buildin up to when AF is due, you hope and pray it dont turn up, and when it does u just wana cry!!!

but you have a few more days to go! get BDin u never know

some people dont show a postive till after af is due, I know with c-a i didnt show a + till I was about 7 weeks

 

[shaunie_louise]

It's not over til af appears!

Also, I think even if you are pregnant it would be too early to tell yet!

Good luck hun, hope you cheer up soon!

xx

 

[Lianatoot]

Oh its defo ok to moan, TTC is a very hard and emotional buisness, and on top of that we have hormones...PMT everything to deal with! your defo not alone hun, I know your pain...I hope you will get some good news soon tho!

 

[sam27]

thanks so much all of you, you are stars

just think it doesnt help i have had this cold and am tired it always makes things seem worse than they are!

changing the subject i have now managed to notice a difference in my cp (am a novie rooter arounder!) i think it is what you would class as high but its right there lol! and very soft around the opening so not sure if this is good bad or indifferent! i have white cm and i know this is tmi but it looks almost like i should have thrush but i dont feel any symptoms at all

any ideas???

 

[Lianatoot]

I cant help you hun, I am not an expert at all on the CP, I would be interested to find out what its all about though...can you tell yourself if your pregnant or what? I know the last time I was PG, they did say they could tell by my cervix.

 

[Lianatoot]

I googled it....

For women who track their cervical position in order to determine fertility, many wonder if there correlation between the position of the cervix and early pregnancy.

Unfortunately, there doesn’t seem to be a simple answer for all women. The position of the cervix during pregnancy does change but not at the same time in all women.

After ovulation, your cervix will drop lower in your vagina and feel firm, like the tip of your nose. During pregnancy, the cervix will rise a bit and become softer, but the timing of this happening will vary from woman to woman. For some, this will happen shortly before their period is due, but for other, this will not happen until quite a while after their pregnancy has been confirmed.

Due to this variation between women, checking the position of your cervix to determine pregnancy is not a reliable indication of whether or not your are pregnant. More reliable ways to find out if you are pregnant is take a sensitive home pregnancy test or by visiting your doctor for a pregnancy blood test.

 

[sam27]

thanks for that it is more than likely due to af not being that far off

 

[franky]

aww hon. this was my first month ttc and i got my hopes up that i would be one of the very few women who get a bfp after the first month. After my af being 4 days late i got really excited and kept testing and got bfn!

af arrived yesterday although i am disappointed i know that there was a very slim chance of getting pg after one month.

Hopefully you are one of the lucky ones that get pg in first month but as shaunie says, itts not over til af arrives!

good luck


x