F**king sick of it

[weeemms1]

Hi,

Sorry for the language but i've been trying for over a year and am getting sick of it (i know some ppl have been trying longer) Im 3 days late and i take a pregnancy test 5 minutes ago and its negative and its really annoying me now im phoning doctors first thing cos i can't wait anymore

My period is totally unstable since i got my implant out 14 months ago and i never know when its going to come or not

i actually have a wee diry of dates in the lasr few months to show use using the period tracker App

The last 5-6 months are as follows,

feb - march was 25days
march and april was 28days
april and may was 28again
may to june was 30days
the june to july was 30 again
july to august was 28 days
august to september was 27

NOW I AM 3 DAYS LATE SO BK ON THE 30 DAYS I NEE HELP!!!!!!:'(


Plz people help

 

[rachaellouise]

I am sorry I have no advice but just wanted to show support

 

[mrsH2009]

I have no advice Hun but want you you to know since I stopped BCP I have never had a regular cycle it ranges from 29-42 days but don't give up hope my mum claimed yo have always been like that but she gas four children

 

[LouiseB]

It's always awful getting the BFN, it doesn't matter how long you've been at it so don't worry about that.

To be quite honest, i think your cycles are pretty good - not perfect, but a fluctuation of 3 days is still good in the whole scheme of things.

I'm just sorry that it led you to thinking that you was late, which meant you got your heart ripped out when you tested

All that i can suggest is not presuming you are late until you hit 30 days in future and to use OPKs.

 

[Olive]

Hi wee emms just read your msg and didnt want to read and run. hope you're ok hun. it is so so frustrating and can really get us all down. big hug coming your way (i'm not far from the weeg) xxxx

 

[kizzibea]

I know how frustrating it is hun. At least it doesn't fluctuate by a huge amount. Your average cycle is about 28 days.

Mine varies from 26 to 35 so I always assume that it's going to be 30 and work to that. I don't bother testing until at least 30 days have gone by but then I'm always suspicious until AF actually shows up.

 

[BabyLover]

didn't want to read and run

there's no advice for you, you either fall pregnant or you don't...me and my partner have been TTC for over 4 years now and no luck, a year aint that bad...

All you got to do is carry on, don't worry about it or stress over it...if it nothing happens after 2 years then go to your GP and speak to them about it and they will more or likely refer you to a specialist at the fertility clinc, but this is done normally after 2 years of TTC

Good Luck

Donna x

 

[weeemms1]

Hi

just a quick update im 4 days late now not getting my hopes up but hope it happens a few days i had like a light pink spotting which could be a sign but idk

 

[xshauna_bazx]

Good luck hun let us know hope the witch stays away xxx

 

[weeemms1]

Hi,

Thats me a week late 2morrow

i dnt even have any symptons but i have a doctor app on monday so fingers crossed

x

 

[evie_smith]

Oh wow!! Hunni!!! Wondered where you had gone we were ttc at the same time I was sure you would had had your bfp by now you yourself up the doctors hunni it's been over a year - if your over a week late or near enough you may still get that bfp!!!! I have my fingers firmly crossed for you hunni!!!!! Wishing you all the luck xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx


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[karenandbump]

Hey hon, hope it goes ok at the docs and got everything crossed for a BFP for u x x x

 

[LouiseB]

Fingres crossed, let us know

 

[mrsH2009]

Fingers crossed have you tested recently

 

[maybe baby]

Good luck tomorrow hun!

If you don't get a BFP then I'd definitely ask for tests at this stage especially as you are a bit irregular. xx

 

[sparkle82]

Good luck for 2mrw Hun, I've been ttc 4 the last 17 months & I no how hard it is. Fingers crossed 4 u 2mrw hopefully U don't av 2 but if it's not the outcome ur prayin 4 u shud def speak 2 ur doc & get sum tests done. I was refered afta a year bcos avin irregular periods aswell. It will put ur mind at rest hopefully xxxx

 

[weeemms1]

Guess what happened wnt to the doctors got a urine sample to do a test didnt need toliet so i took it home so i could had it later got home and then i start bleeding i was like i new that would happen.

Now i'm wondering if i should go to the doctors for tests but i really don't know how to go about it do i just walk in andsay i've been trying for 13 months and nothing has happened yet very scared as hubby keepssaying if anything it will be something to do with me cos i had the implaint anda jag b-cos of my blood type

Any advice ladies?

 

[evie_smith]

I would make a doctors appt take your other half with you and jut sit down and tell them everything how long you have been trying and what you have done to keep track of your cycles and ovulation ect and go from their they will test your other half first as it's easier and then if he is ok then you will be run through tests xxx


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[weeemms1]

Thx for the info