F##cking men

[emmie]

I have had enough of my husband anyone wanna trade lol


I dont know why he's just doing my head in and he doesnt understand how i'm feeling, i just wanna cry about it all the time, if fact last night i did. He went to bed early without me so when i came up i got into my side and just started blubbing, it got so bad i just went and slept in the spare room. I heard him wake up in the night and go downstairs to get a drink but he didnt bother coming to find me, also this morning when he got up for work he didnt bother coming in either, this just makes me feel like he doesnt care and our marriage is practically over.

 

[choklatemunky]

Aww Hun have a
Men just don't seem to think the same way about things as women do!

 

[nori]

probably just being stubburn hun.. that or being a typical male and hasnt got a clue about the "right thing to do" and doesnt even recognise there is a problem. You should know by now that us ladies have to spell everything out to them..

Claire x

 

[Melly+2]

men are bum holes, simple as!!!

 

[bobby1]

why can't men be more sensitive sometimes?

 

[lea m]

I know how you feel! I feel like OH doesn't care enough but tbh I think its more my own hormones and the way Im interpreting things! Men generally don't know how to deal with us and he might think you need space that's why you went in the spare room! We expect them to follow or come get us but they think the opposite is what we want and then we get more upset! Im sure everything is fine really hun and he loves you lots! Just is a man!

 

[Melly+2]

What we have to remember is pregnancy isnt something men can relate to like we can, its our bodies carrying this little person, our bodies changing shape and creating hormones that send us awol, theres really no way they can understand why we feel the way we feel, they can only try. I think the best think to do is to be really open and honest about how we are feeling and just explain we know they cant really help but sometimes we just need hugs and maybe they may take it on board a bit more. I found this has worked with my oh, he does alot for me now and always looks after me but at first he couldnt understand why i was being grumpy all the time, it just took some talking to and it helped loads

 

[gracie]

You wouldn't want to swop for mine either. Hope you have a better day today.

 

[emmie]

Cheers ladies, feeling a bit better today hopefully he will be all appologetic and loving when he gets home tonight.

 

[Baby&i]

aww babe men are such meanies sometimes bless you. i know how you feel sometimes my OH can be like that if his having a crappy day at work or his diabetes are out of wack.. i normally give the silent treatment he will catch on then you can have a little rant untill he says sorry xx

 

[Morganuk]

Have you told him how your feeling hun?
Maybe he has worries and you are both just not communicating.
Dont forget hun when were pregnant we can take things to heart as our hormones are rushing round us.

I hope you can sort it out hun

 

[bobby1]

glad to hear your feeling better today hun!!

 

[EllieBelle]

oh hun.........you are not alone.

Im feeling just the same as you, since my DH started his new job I feel like its all he cares about and I am very low in the list of priorities. Since last week I have been up and down like a yo yo - more down than up though, spent the entire day in bed today just thinking and crying.

Im really struggling with life at the moment which is totally out of character for me as Im normally so upbeat and positive!

Im guessing it must be our hormones, plus men just dont seem to understand how much support we need at the moment!!!!

Hope you feel better soon

 

[hennaly]

did he not even ask you what was wrong

 

[emmie]

Nope didnt say a word to me, i made sure i wasnt home when he got back from work thikning he would ring my mobile asap to see where i was but NOTHING!! Just got back from Tesco and all he said was have you been shopping!!

 

[hennaly]

i have to say i would be very upset too, i know men dont undetstand pregnancy but he should at least show some concern if you were crying and slept in another room.

 

[emmie]

i have to say i would be very upset too, i know men dont undetstand pregnancy but he should at least show some concern if you were crying and slept in another room.

still not said anything about last night but he is trying his best, as i cleaned everywhere today he is finishing off by hoovering the whole house, he should be done in about 2 hours lmao

 

[bobby1]

glad to hear he is making an attempt to make things right

 

[hennaly]

i have to say i would be very upset too, i know men dont undetstand pregnancy but he should at least show some concern if you were crying and slept in another room.

still not said anything about last night but he is trying his best, as i cleaned everywhere today he is finishing off by hoovering the whole house, he should be done in about 2 hours lmao

it sounds like he has no idea how to deal with yours or his feelings, i kinda feel for him too now